It's been too long since I've written. This probably won't count as a post because it's almost over...about to head to lunch and then the beach with my mom and 2 nieces. I have so much that needs to be covered...I will update on Sunday after this holiday weekend is over.
Until next time...Muah!
Friday, July 3, 2009
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Nothing Happens By Chance!!
Today was a GREAT day!
I went to church and heard a sermon that really spoke to my spirit. It was focused on trusting in GOD in all situations and He will take you where you need to go.
Now, in my last post I was venting about my really wanting to move and moving fast. I had it in my head that it was my time. I just knew that it was time for me to go and I was going to do so without even knowing if that was God's plan for me. Yeah, I was working on my time, but not God's...which is the only way it can be, His time.
My favorite scripture is Proverbs 3: 5 - 6 ~ "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thy own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him; and He shall direct thy paths."
I love this passage and I really have not been living by it so much. Isn't that a shame. I believe that God was tryna tell me something when the pastor today kept reciting this passage. I have been worrying about doing what I want to do without regard for what God wants me to do. I want Him to order my steps for sure, so I am going to chill out with all this madness and wait on my cue from God. I truly believe He will bring me out and open doors for me, that I can not even dream of being opened in my life.
What's even crazier is that a friend of mine and several others have updated their facebook statuses with this scripture passage. God is talking to me BIG time! And I thank Him for it. Think about all the coincidences that have happened recently in your life...it was not a coincidence! Nothing happens by chance folk! God is tryna tell ya somethn!!
Have a blessed week!
I went to church and heard a sermon that really spoke to my spirit. It was focused on trusting in GOD in all situations and He will take you where you need to go.
Now, in my last post I was venting about my really wanting to move and moving fast. I had it in my head that it was my time. I just knew that it was time for me to go and I was going to do so without even knowing if that was God's plan for me. Yeah, I was working on my time, but not God's...which is the only way it can be, His time.
My favorite scripture is Proverbs 3: 5 - 6 ~ "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thy own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him; and He shall direct thy paths."
I love this passage and I really have not been living by it so much. Isn't that a shame. I believe that God was tryna tell me something when the pastor today kept reciting this passage. I have been worrying about doing what I want to do without regard for what God wants me to do. I want Him to order my steps for sure, so I am going to chill out with all this madness and wait on my cue from God. I truly believe He will bring me out and open doors for me, that I can not even dream of being opened in my life.
What's even crazier is that a friend of mine and several others have updated their facebook statuses with this scripture passage. God is talking to me BIG time! And I thank Him for it. Think about all the coincidences that have happened recently in your life...it was not a coincidence! Nothing happens by chance folk! God is tryna tell ya somethn!!
Have a blessed week!
Friday, May 15, 2009
TGIF!
I am sitting in a client's office waiting on him to come in, so I decided to try this blogging thing from my phone. Please don't be alarmed if I start writing in shorthand text...lol! It's because I'm using my phone! Duh!
Today has been a very productive one for me so far. I'm supa glad that it's Friday. Am I the only one who thinks this week went by supa fast? I'm not complaining though. I love the weekend!
So many things are going on in my life...which is why I don't have as much time to write. But I'm determined to do better because writing is indeed my therapy! I love writing toooo much. I'm in fact really considering writing a book. I just haven't decided what I want it to be about. Whatever it is, I'm pretty sure I'll be famous and my book will be a best-seller!
Ok so I went home this past weekend and had a blast! The only problem is, I've been sad since then because I really miss home. I miss my loved ones sooo much. It is not easy being away from your family and bestest friends. I am a witness to that for sure. My cousin and I just had this conversation the other day cause she is missing home as well. I really don't think I can be down here for too long. I'm just waiting on God to give me the ok and poof I'm headed back to home :-) I truly believe that my time is coming, I can feel it! I know that something great for me will come along and I'll know it. Hopefully sooner than later lol!
Wow! I have been sitting in his office for too long! It seems like I've been writing forever! Gosh!
Today has been a very productive one for me so far. I'm supa glad that it's Friday. Am I the only one who thinks this week went by supa fast? I'm not complaining though. I love the weekend!
So many things are going on in my life...which is why I don't have as much time to write. But I'm determined to do better because writing is indeed my therapy! I love writing toooo much. I'm in fact really considering writing a book. I just haven't decided what I want it to be about. Whatever it is, I'm pretty sure I'll be famous and my book will be a best-seller!
Ok so I went home this past weekend and had a blast! The only problem is, I've been sad since then because I really miss home. I miss my loved ones sooo much. It is not easy being away from your family and bestest friends. I am a witness to that for sure. My cousin and I just had this conversation the other day cause she is missing home as well. I really don't think I can be down here for too long. I'm just waiting on God to give me the ok and poof I'm headed back to home :-) I truly believe that my time is coming, I can feel it! I know that something great for me will come along and I'll know it. Hopefully sooner than later lol!
Wow! I have been sitting in his office for too long! It seems like I've been writing forever! Gosh!
Monday, April 27, 2009
It hurts to miss so much...
I'm a busy body, yep...that's me.
Anyway, I'm hoping this week will go by super fast, along with the week after that. I am going home for Mother's Day, my best friend's bday, and my sorority sister's graduation! I'm so excited, but then I get to thinking...who can celebrate all that in one weekend? I don't know how, but I'm going to make it happen.
I love when I get to celebrate with loved ones, no matter what it is. I love being close to those I love the most...I mean, who doesn't huh? This is when I get home sick. Gosh, I need to be around my peeps for real. I've met some great people down here, but this is not the place for me. I can feel it! I'm ready to MOVE!!! I know that I won't be able to leave until it is time, but dang, why is it taking so long? I already have a list of places I want to go, and have found several houses in the neighborhoods of those cities...I know, kinda anal ain't I??? I don't think so, but others might. I love to plan things like this. It gets me excited! Maybe too excited that I start to think about the possibilities and get sad because it is not happening fast enough. I keep wishing it would, but don't want to rush things that I may not be ready for. I really love my job and am not completely miserable here, but still man! Ugh!
I know that I need to be patient, but it's very difficult for me to want something so bad and not do anything about. Sure, I've been looking for jobs in my target areas, but nothing that stands out and will present me with a better career opportunity. I cannot do that to myself! I was actually called about a job about 2 weeks ago, and had to turn them down because of the location. This is the worst place ever...a very small racist town. I would not even feel safe there...and why jeopardize my positive quality of life on some ignorant racist town that would probably have me going to the back to get my food, in the colored only section. And whoever reads this can say whatever you want, or draw your own opinion, but I have experienced this mess growing up, so it's not as far-fetched as you may think. Racism is still alive...everybody isn't racist, but it definitely exists.
So I can't focus on too much now except on looking at houses in my future new places of residence...I think I'll do that right now as a matter of fact lol!
Anyway, I'm hoping this week will go by super fast, along with the week after that. I am going home for Mother's Day, my best friend's bday, and my sorority sister's graduation! I'm so excited, but then I get to thinking...who can celebrate all that in one weekend? I don't know how, but I'm going to make it happen.
I love when I get to celebrate with loved ones, no matter what it is. I love being close to those I love the most...I mean, who doesn't huh? This is when I get home sick. Gosh, I need to be around my peeps for real. I've met some great people down here, but this is not the place for me. I can feel it! I'm ready to MOVE!!! I know that I won't be able to leave until it is time, but dang, why is it taking so long? I already have a list of places I want to go, and have found several houses in the neighborhoods of those cities...I know, kinda anal ain't I??? I don't think so, but others might. I love to plan things like this. It gets me excited! Maybe too excited that I start to think about the possibilities and get sad because it is not happening fast enough. I keep wishing it would, but don't want to rush things that I may not be ready for. I really love my job and am not completely miserable here, but still man! Ugh!
I know that I need to be patient, but it's very difficult for me to want something so bad and not do anything about. Sure, I've been looking for jobs in my target areas, but nothing that stands out and will present me with a better career opportunity. I cannot do that to myself! I was actually called about a job about 2 weeks ago, and had to turn them down because of the location. This is the worst place ever...a very small racist town. I would not even feel safe there...and why jeopardize my positive quality of life on some ignorant racist town that would probably have me going to the back to get my food, in the colored only section. And whoever reads this can say whatever you want, or draw your own opinion, but I have experienced this mess growing up, so it's not as far-fetched as you may think. Racism is still alive...everybody isn't racist, but it definitely exists.
So I can't focus on too much now except on looking at houses in my future new places of residence...I think I'll do that right now as a matter of fact lol!
Monday, April 20, 2009
What a WeEkEnD!!!
Ok I had the best time this weekend at a BBQ my friend J had! There was plenty of food and drinks, which is right down my alley!! (I sound so much like my momma with that)
There were a lot of people there, which I enjoyed because I am a talker and a people person. I talked to everybody! That's just what I do...We even persuaded the men to play Taboo, which is my favorite game! Now, that was super hilarious! I told them at the beginning that they would lose, but they didn't believe me. And guess what happened? They lost EVERY game!!! hahahahahaha! It got to be a little heated because all of us were very competitive. I hate to lose, so you know I wasn't about to give up my Taboo crown to a bunch of clueless men! They had to go down...and they did!
After we whooped their a** in Taboo, we started to have deep conversations, which I dreaded because I knew that we (as in us women) would get upset with the simple mindedness of the men. One of the guys asks for my opinion about his current relationship situation. He was wondering why girls go through the phones of their boyfriends...mainly because his girlfriend was doing the same to him. So, he then goes on to say that he likes pics of naked women, and that is what she found. His rationale was that she shouldn't be going through his phone because he bought her a truck and he pays her cell phone bill. See the simple minds??? I'm looking at him like he's crazy by now, because he's out of his mind if he thinks that is gonna fly with a woman and also because he is obviously a freakin pervert! It's not enough that he has a woman at his beck and call (because she is) he wants more...he wants to look at pics of naked women. WTF?? He then says, "It's the same as if you were to send me a pic and I keep it...I keep my pics." I ask him why he even gets to the point where he lets other women send him those type of pics if he is so into his girlfriend? We were all getting mad at this point, so we calm down on this topic. How stupid and selfish of him, huh?
All I have to say is, sometimes it saddens me how clueless men are about a woman's feelings. Some of them have no idea what it takes to keep a woman, and sadly, they don't care as long as their needs are fulfilled. They don't think that they won't prosper in life when negatively handling matters of the heart. Bless their little hearts...It can only end in tragedy...
Speaking of tragedy, that's what it would have been if I continued to talk to that loser of a man that I mentioned briefly in my last post...TRAGEDY! Thank you Lord that I use the sense you gave me, and will tell it like it is, instead of remaining in a bad situation. Please understand, when I say this guy is a loser, I am not exaggerating, I'm actually sugar coating it lol!
There were a lot of people there, which I enjoyed because I am a talker and a people person. I talked to everybody! That's just what I do...We even persuaded the men to play Taboo, which is my favorite game! Now, that was super hilarious! I told them at the beginning that they would lose, but they didn't believe me. And guess what happened? They lost EVERY game!!! hahahahahaha! It got to be a little heated because all of us were very competitive. I hate to lose, so you know I wasn't about to give up my Taboo crown to a bunch of clueless men! They had to go down...and they did!
After we whooped their a** in Taboo, we started to have deep conversations, which I dreaded because I knew that we (as in us women) would get upset with the simple mindedness of the men. One of the guys asks for my opinion about his current relationship situation. He was wondering why girls go through the phones of their boyfriends...mainly because his girlfriend was doing the same to him. So, he then goes on to say that he likes pics of naked women, and that is what she found. His rationale was that she shouldn't be going through his phone because he bought her a truck and he pays her cell phone bill. See the simple minds??? I'm looking at him like he's crazy by now, because he's out of his mind if he thinks that is gonna fly with a woman and also because he is obviously a freakin pervert! It's not enough that he has a woman at his beck and call (because she is) he wants more...he wants to look at pics of naked women. WTF?? He then says, "It's the same as if you were to send me a pic and I keep it...I keep my pics." I ask him why he even gets to the point where he lets other women send him those type of pics if he is so into his girlfriend? We were all getting mad at this point, so we calm down on this topic. How stupid and selfish of him, huh?
All I have to say is, sometimes it saddens me how clueless men are about a woman's feelings. Some of them have no idea what it takes to keep a woman, and sadly, they don't care as long as their needs are fulfilled. They don't think that they won't prosper in life when negatively handling matters of the heart. Bless their little hearts...It can only end in tragedy...
Speaking of tragedy, that's what it would have been if I continued to talk to that loser of a man that I mentioned briefly in my last post...TRAGEDY! Thank you Lord that I use the sense you gave me, and will tell it like it is, instead of remaining in a bad situation. Please understand, when I say this guy is a loser, I am not exaggerating, I'm actually sugar coating it lol!
Friday, April 17, 2009
Reunited and it feels Oh so GOOD!
I'm back from outer space it seems...WOW! It has been awhile since I have written. So much has occurred in my life. I have been supa busy with work and all the other things that come with life...I'm guessing you know how it is. I am vowing to do better. My personal goal is to write at least every other day, if not every day. We shall see how that goes :-)
Here are some of the randoms...in simple form (I will explain later)
The guy that my friend's husband wanted me to date in the Navy ended up being almost 17 years older than me, and oh yeah...he is separated from his wife. Which means, yep you guessed it...He's MARRIED!! What a freakin LOSER!!!! I hate when old married men try to get at us younger women. He may have been successful with some other young chicks, but it is a wrap for me. It disgusts me just thinking about that foolishness!
I had an exhausting business trip in Vegas. Probably because the first day I was awake for 24 hours! My mind couldn't even function...but what's most important is I went out every night and had a BLAST! Hey, I can sleep later right? That's the BS I was telling myself as I danced the night away at the hottest Vegas clubs lol!
I was in the mall and saw a little boy who had to be at least 5 or 6, walking around with a pacifier in his mouth! But don't worry, he was able to talk to his mother just fine, even while it was in his mouth. Shame shame shame shame shame!! I remember my friend N.H. said people should have to fill out an application before they have kids. I believe 95% would not get approved and the other 5% would probably get fired within 5 years for letting their little boy walk around with a pacifier in his mouth!
I miss home soooooooo much. I went home for Easter and was very very sad that I had to leave. That's the worst part about going home. I know that I am where I am supposed to be for the moment, so I will just continue to trust God and wait until He gives me the OK to leave my current location...though I do hope it will be sooner than later... :-)
Those were just a few randoms that came to mind. I will get back on track soon. Honestly, I don't know if my mind has returned to normal since Vegas. Now that's a shame too....
Here are some of the randoms...in simple form (I will explain later)
The guy that my friend's husband wanted me to date in the Navy ended up being almost 17 years older than me, and oh yeah...he is separated from his wife. Which means, yep you guessed it...He's MARRIED!! What a freakin LOSER!!!! I hate when old married men try to get at us younger women. He may have been successful with some other young chicks, but it is a wrap for me. It disgusts me just thinking about that foolishness!
I had an exhausting business trip in Vegas. Probably because the first day I was awake for 24 hours! My mind couldn't even function...but what's most important is I went out every night and had a BLAST! Hey, I can sleep later right? That's the BS I was telling myself as I danced the night away at the hottest Vegas clubs lol!
I was in the mall and saw a little boy who had to be at least 5 or 6, walking around with a pacifier in his mouth! But don't worry, he was able to talk to his mother just fine, even while it was in his mouth. Shame shame shame shame shame!! I remember my friend N.H. said people should have to fill out an application before they have kids. I believe 95% would not get approved and the other 5% would probably get fired within 5 years for letting their little boy walk around with a pacifier in his mouth!
I miss home soooooooo much. I went home for Easter and was very very sad that I had to leave. That's the worst part about going home. I know that I am where I am supposed to be for the moment, so I will just continue to trust God and wait until He gives me the OK to leave my current location...though I do hope it will be sooner than later... :-)
Those were just a few randoms that came to mind. I will get back on track soon. Honestly, I don't know if my mind has returned to normal since Vegas. Now that's a shame too....
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Wake up women!
I don't know why women think that if they end a relationship with a man, that life as they know it is over!
Why are we so drama??? Having a man does not define you! Honestly, just like you got that man, God will surely send you someone else. Now, don't get it twisted. I am not one of those chicks who say "I don't need a man" or "All men are dogs!" There is just something that women must do....We must love ourselves! Only then can we love a man and expect him to love us the way we need to be loved. This is sooo important to our success in life as a daugther, mother, wife, friend, co-worker...We must love ourselves.
The reason why we end up in some of the situations we do, is because the unconditional love for ourselves is not there. How can you expect a man to treat you right, when you can't even do the same for yourself. And I have been through it all. I was even in a relationship where I am certain I loved this guy more than I did myself. And yes, there is such thing of loving someone too much, because I don't know if you know this, but God is a jealous God. He does not want you putting someone else before him. That just won't work. And this is what I was doing...which resulted in God taking that person away from me. I had to realize that and since I have, I focus on loving myself. My relationships are not perfect, but I love myself. All of the rest will fall in place.
I look at the Rhianna and Chris Brown situation. I don't care what went down, whether he hit her first or if she punched him first, she is with him after all that hell, because she does not love herself enough. How is it we get this way? What has happened to us that keeps the love for ourselves at bay? Is is because we as women are nurturing and care for others, sort of like the motherly instinct, which results in us leaving ourselves out? I don't know but I am sure that whatever it is, the cycle must end.
I want my future husband to see the way I love God and myself...which will then let him know firsthand the kind of love I am offering and expecting to receive in return from him.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
4 Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, 5 does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, 6 does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Why are we so drama??? Having a man does not define you! Honestly, just like you got that man, God will surely send you someone else. Now, don't get it twisted. I am not one of those chicks who say "I don't need a man" or "All men are dogs!" There is just something that women must do....We must love ourselves! Only then can we love a man and expect him to love us the way we need to be loved. This is sooo important to our success in life as a daugther, mother, wife, friend, co-worker...We must love ourselves.
The reason why we end up in some of the situations we do, is because the unconditional love for ourselves is not there. How can you expect a man to treat you right, when you can't even do the same for yourself. And I have been through it all. I was even in a relationship where I am certain I loved this guy more than I did myself. And yes, there is such thing of loving someone too much, because I don't know if you know this, but God is a jealous God. He does not want you putting someone else before him. That just won't work. And this is what I was doing...which resulted in God taking that person away from me. I had to realize that and since I have, I focus on loving myself. My relationships are not perfect, but I love myself. All of the rest will fall in place.
I look at the Rhianna and Chris Brown situation. I don't care what went down, whether he hit her first or if she punched him first, she is with him after all that hell, because she does not love herself enough. How is it we get this way? What has happened to us that keeps the love for ourselves at bay? Is is because we as women are nurturing and care for others, sort of like the motherly instinct, which results in us leaving ourselves out? I don't know but I am sure that whatever it is, the cycle must end.
I want my future husband to see the way I love God and myself...which will then let him know firsthand the kind of love I am offering and expecting to receive in return from him.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
4 Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, 5 does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, 6 does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Sunday, March 22, 2009
See No Evil
Haven't written in awhile...and it's not cause I don't care, I've just been super busy!!! I still have that peace that I mentioned last week. I've been feeling really good...still so thankful for the way things are going in my life.
I went out this weekend with friends and had a blast. One of my friends is really trying to hook me up with her husband's boss. He saw a pic of me from one of our nights out and he was really digging me she says. Only problem is, she has not seen him before. He said all this stuff to her husband. He's some kind of ranking officer in the Navy. Word is he really has his stuff together. Knows how to act, wants great things for his future and taking the necessary steps too. This is refreshing because those type of guys aren't plentiful...endangered species I say :-) He even wrote his number down on a piece of paper for me to call him. Maybe I will, maybe I won't. He seems to know just what he wants. Now, I'm sure he is a nice guy and all, but blind dates are not a way to go for me. She suggested they have a BBQ and we can see each other that way. This scenario will work better because it's not like we have to just talk to each other. There will be other folk around and we can talk only if we want. The plan is in the works for the BBQ sometime next month. We'll see how that goes! I'll be sure to blog about it lol!
So you may be wondering why I'm not a fan of blind dates...and the answer is because I had the most terrible experience years ago when I was in high school. All my life, people have tried to hook me up with guys they know, whether it be a friend, brother, cousin, etc. It seems that I'm the one they see who is perfect for the guy they know. This particular instance, a friend of mine called me with his friend on 3-way. (You remember being on 3-way back in the day was the thing!) So, my friend Mike had to hang up, but the guy he wanted me to talk to, Ray wanted to continue the conversation. He was nice and charming. He asked me to describe myself, and I did so honestly, because I thought that was the right thing to do. Oh but when the tables turned, he described himself in such a way that made him seem too good to be true...and believe me, he was. We met shortly after that and I was disgusted for 2 reasons. #1 he completely lied to me about the way he looked. #2 he looked awful! Not my type at all. Maybe if he was still cute even though he lied, I would have still talked to him, but he was not a cutie lol! I scolded my friend Mike for even considering hooking me up with such a creature, he laughed and said he didn't judge dudes. What a way to be accountable! So this is why blind dates are to be avoided! That was one time that scarred me for life. I wonder where that lying fool is now. He's probably still at it. Maybe one of those guys on myspace who post pics of others on their profile pretending that it's him :-) If you're reading this and that's what you do...shame on you! HAHAHAHA!
I went out this weekend with friends and had a blast. One of my friends is really trying to hook me up with her husband's boss. He saw a pic of me from one of our nights out and he was really digging me she says. Only problem is, she has not seen him before. He said all this stuff to her husband. He's some kind of ranking officer in the Navy. Word is he really has his stuff together. Knows how to act, wants great things for his future and taking the necessary steps too. This is refreshing because those type of guys aren't plentiful...endangered species I say :-) He even wrote his number down on a piece of paper for me to call him. Maybe I will, maybe I won't. He seems to know just what he wants. Now, I'm sure he is a nice guy and all, but blind dates are not a way to go for me. She suggested they have a BBQ and we can see each other that way. This scenario will work better because it's not like we have to just talk to each other. There will be other folk around and we can talk only if we want. The plan is in the works for the BBQ sometime next month. We'll see how that goes! I'll be sure to blog about it lol!
So you may be wondering why I'm not a fan of blind dates...and the answer is because I had the most terrible experience years ago when I was in high school. All my life, people have tried to hook me up with guys they know, whether it be a friend, brother, cousin, etc. It seems that I'm the one they see who is perfect for the guy they know. This particular instance, a friend of mine called me with his friend on 3-way. (You remember being on 3-way back in the day was the thing!) So, my friend Mike had to hang up, but the guy he wanted me to talk to, Ray wanted to continue the conversation. He was nice and charming. He asked me to describe myself, and I did so honestly, because I thought that was the right thing to do. Oh but when the tables turned, he described himself in such a way that made him seem too good to be true...and believe me, he was. We met shortly after that and I was disgusted for 2 reasons. #1 he completely lied to me about the way he looked. #2 he looked awful! Not my type at all. Maybe if he was still cute even though he lied, I would have still talked to him, but he was not a cutie lol! I scolded my friend Mike for even considering hooking me up with such a creature, he laughed and said he didn't judge dudes. What a way to be accountable! So this is why blind dates are to be avoided! That was one time that scarred me for life. I wonder where that lying fool is now. He's probably still at it. Maybe one of those guys on myspace who post pics of others on their profile pretending that it's him :-) If you're reading this and that's what you do...shame on you! HAHAHAHA!
Sunday, March 15, 2009
So I can be FAMOUS???
I'm watching Sunday Best on BET right now...up in here having church again!!! There are really some folk on here who have been blessed with the gift of singing. I love music and those who know how to deliver a great performance are uplifting.
Ok so this lady just tried to plead her case for going through to be on the show and she says, "I've been singing since I was 2!!"
I'm looking like...so what? Why do people think that if they started singing right out the womb that they are entitled to be a great singer? What about those that woke up one morning at the age of 20 that wanted to sing. This doesn't mean they are any less of a singer...just because they weren't videotaped as a child singing the lead in the choir, does not mean that God did not bless them with a voice that can have an impact on others. Just a thought...
If all that matters then I need to go ahead and start videotaping myself singing...you know since I gotta make it big and all. I've been humming since I was a baby, my mother just didn't think to video it...Gosh! I could be famous now!
Happy Sunday :-)
Ok so this lady just tried to plead her case for going through to be on the show and she says, "I've been singing since I was 2!!"
I'm looking like...so what? Why do people think that if they started singing right out the womb that they are entitled to be a great singer? What about those that woke up one morning at the age of 20 that wanted to sing. This doesn't mean they are any less of a singer...just because they weren't videotaped as a child singing the lead in the choir, does not mean that God did not bless them with a voice that can have an impact on others. Just a thought...
If all that matters then I need to go ahead and start videotaping myself singing...you know since I gotta make it big and all. I've been humming since I was a baby, my mother just didn't think to video it...Gosh! I could be famous now!
Happy Sunday :-)
Thursday, March 12, 2009
If you got it...flaunt it!
I've been so busy today!
All I want to say is I feel really good right now! I have this peace that has taken over me. I know that everything is going to work out in my life in all areas. This may not make any sense, but this is how I feel.
I have "peace that surpasses all understanding"...
So I ask you simply...
Got peace?
All I want to say is I feel really good right now! I have this peace that has taken over me. I know that everything is going to work out in my life in all areas. This may not make any sense, but this is how I feel.
I have "peace that surpasses all understanding"...
So I ask you simply...
Got peace?
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
ReAdInG iS fUnDaMeNtAl
You know us women like to read books about relationships. Two of my girls and I are reading Steve Harvey's new book together..."Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man". One of my girls came up with the idea to read then discuss. I've only read about 3 pages because I have been so busy...which is bad because one of my girls is almost finished! I'll get with it soon I hope.
Like I said, haven't read that many pages, so I really don't know if I will like the book or not. A friend of mine that read it said it was a little slow and drawn out like Steve Harvey is on his morning show, which falls in line with some reviews I've been reading. Others have loved the book, saying it provided real world advice for women. I hope that it turns out to be a good read, I'm pretty sure it will.
One thing I will be looking for in this book is validation to things I've already known for some time. In reality, once you've been through certain situations you kinda know how to handle certain people...in this case men. I've had some crazy situations with guys over the years...as I get older, it's less crazy because I have learned from my mistakes, as well as the mistakes of others when it comes to relationships. I'm actually pretty proud of myself in that area. There is always room for improvement, but I'm not necessarily looking to improve from reading this book. I believe that the greatest experience is getting together as friends and discussing our thoughts on points from the book. I am thankful that my friends have been in situations and have learned from them...it's just plain sorry to not show any growth over the years. How are you going to make it through life going thru the same crap all the time. There are actually people out there who are okay with this! Losers!
Now back to the book, I would have to say that while it is important to talk to women about relationships issues...I've gotten the greatest success talking to other men. My guy friends that I have are invaluable to me. These are not the guys I date. They are who I learn from. I talk to them about relationships...mines and theirs. There is one friend I've had for a long time that's like a brother to me. I know him like the back of my hand, and vice versa. We have those talks. And I guarantee you, there is info presented that cannot be learned in any book, talk show, online site etc. Besides that, the best way to learn is from experience. That is my thought. Anyway, I'm looking forward to reading the book and sharing my thoughts along the way. Maybe you should read it too! Let me know what you think...
Sunday, March 8, 2009
Don't you wish your girlfriend was hot like me?
A friend sent me a link to take a quiz titled "What do guys like about you?''
Interesting huh? I thought so, which is why I took the quiz. I like for people to tell me about myself...even if it turns out to be something I already know. In this case, I would like to think I have a clear idea of what guys like about me, but who knows? The one thing I may think makes a guy yearn to be in my presence, may not be it.
So before I took this quiz I tried to come up with a few things that I believe guys like about me. I'm pretty confident so the list of a few turned into a list of many lol! One thing I believe guys like about me that I really appreciate is my personality. I am a cool, down to earth chick. I want the best for everybody and I try to motivate others to be all they can be. I love hard, though not very often. Love is important to me so I choose wisely. Once a guy has my heart, he will know it and feel appreciated by me.
So here are the results of the quiz...
I would like to agree that I am charming. The blessing can turn out to be a curse though, because those that I want to forget me have a hard time doing so. It in turn makes me feel bad and I try to keep the lines of communication open but only briefly. Some folk just can't move on. I know that some of us are guilty of this also...but just speaking in regards to my being charming and all...hahahaha! And the part about the bad hair day is sooooo true! I have met the greatest number of guys over my lifetime thinking I was looking tore down!!! I mean, I have been in sweats with a tank top, hair pulled back, plain as ever...and this is when men approach me the most. Of course, me being the direct person that I am, I have asked guys why this is. Most of them reply saying they like me that way because I seem more natural. It's not like when I get all dolled up to go out for a night on the town...just being regular me. Another guy said he likes it when I look comfortable...I have a glow about myself when I'm comfortable. I like that one. I've also gotten answers like, I seem more approachable when I'm dressed down. Does that mean that the guy is intimidated? If he is, then I don't want him coming my way anyway! How charming of me huh? :-)
Anyway, I think I'll try some more of these quizzes and see what comes of it...
Interesting huh? I thought so, which is why I took the quiz. I like for people to tell me about myself...even if it turns out to be something I already know. In this case, I would like to think I have a clear idea of what guys like about me, but who knows? The one thing I may think makes a guy yearn to be in my presence, may not be it.
So before I took this quiz I tried to come up with a few things that I believe guys like about me. I'm pretty confident so the list of a few turned into a list of many lol! One thing I believe guys like about me that I really appreciate is my personality. I am a cool, down to earth chick. I want the best for everybody and I try to motivate others to be all they can be. I love hard, though not very often. Love is important to me so I choose wisely. Once a guy has my heart, he will know it and feel appreciated by me.
So here are the results of the quiz...
Guys Like That You're Charming |
 You're the girl most guys can't get out of their heads Even if they met you on a bad hair day :-) You just seem to "click" with everyone you meet So even if a guy forgets about you for a second... his friends haven't! |
I would like to agree that I am charming. The blessing can turn out to be a curse though, because those that I want to forget me have a hard time doing so. It in turn makes me feel bad and I try to keep the lines of communication open but only briefly. Some folk just can't move on. I know that some of us are guilty of this also...but just speaking in regards to my being charming and all...hahahaha! And the part about the bad hair day is sooooo true! I have met the greatest number of guys over my lifetime thinking I was looking tore down!!! I mean, I have been in sweats with a tank top, hair pulled back, plain as ever...and this is when men approach me the most. Of course, me being the direct person that I am, I have asked guys why this is. Most of them reply saying they like me that way because I seem more natural. It's not like when I get all dolled up to go out for a night on the town...just being regular me. Another guy said he likes it when I look comfortable...I have a glow about myself when I'm comfortable. I like that one. I've also gotten answers like, I seem more approachable when I'm dressed down. Does that mean that the guy is intimidated? If he is, then I don't want him coming my way anyway! How charming of me huh? :-)
Anyway, I think I'll try some more of these quizzes and see what comes of it...
Saturday, March 7, 2009
Wasting the day away...but for good reason!
I'm still recovering from a wonderful night on yesterday...it was a bday celebration for me. A friend of mine told me that it was gonna happen last week, and he wasn't lying. It was at this very nice restaurant that turns into a social setting after 10pm. I loved it! We partied it up grown and sexy style, which is a relief, cause I really don't see a lot of that here lol! I love it when blacks can get together and have a good time, no drama, no fights...just kickin it hard!
I feel really special though! This is the first bday celebration I've had with the people here. Last year my girls came down to visit and we did have a great time. I am just thankful that the people here care enough about me to help me continue on with my bday festivities! This is when I really like it here...when I realize that I have met a great group of people that I can hang out with. I know that the friends I have cannot be replaced at all, but it is comforting to find folk here who share my same interests. We are going to pick up next weekend with more celebrating!!!
The girls chipped in and got me wine glasses as a gift! This may not seem like much, but it's actually very thoughtful considering I had a superbowl party at my house and we had wine to drink...but no wine glasses to drink out of!! So instead, we had to drink out of blue cups, which was not classy at all lol! Now, I have wine glasses so that my guests can enjoy their wine with class!!! Not only the guests, but me too...if I'm feeling up to it. :-)
I was thinking last night that my friends looked so cute. I love it when women/men can go out together and be on the same page in terms of style. Nobody stuck out like a sore thumb. Just classy...Is that materialistic of me? I'm a believer that a person should care about their appearance. I learned when I started my job that "nobody cares about those who don't care about themselves." Do you agree? Just think about it. Why do you think there is so much emphasis on dressing the part, the do's and don'ts of appearance. That's because it matters. Now a lot of people say "like me for who I am on the inside" and that's ok in certain situations, but most of the time that is a bunch of crap. Mainly because if you see someone who looks like a bum in a club or restaurant etc. , you won't want to give that person the time of day. Not saying you will be mean to the person, but you automatically wonder, "What was he/she thinking coming in here with that on?" I know it because I have observed how others react to people like that. Honestly, I have been that person wondering if the other person looked in the mirror before they left the house. It doesn't take a lot to look decent, but it does mean that you care about yourself if you do. It's those that put more time into the look that are much more fabulous than the next. Just my random thoughts. Am I being unreasonable?
I feel really special though! This is the first bday celebration I've had with the people here. Last year my girls came down to visit and we did have a great time. I am just thankful that the people here care enough about me to help me continue on with my bday festivities! This is when I really like it here...when I realize that I have met a great group of people that I can hang out with. I know that the friends I have cannot be replaced at all, but it is comforting to find folk here who share my same interests. We are going to pick up next weekend with more celebrating!!!
The girls chipped in and got me wine glasses as a gift! This may not seem like much, but it's actually very thoughtful considering I had a superbowl party at my house and we had wine to drink...but no wine glasses to drink out of!! So instead, we had to drink out of blue cups, which was not classy at all lol! Now, I have wine glasses so that my guests can enjoy their wine with class!!! Not only the guests, but me too...if I'm feeling up to it. :-)
I was thinking last night that my friends looked so cute. I love it when women/men can go out together and be on the same page in terms of style. Nobody stuck out like a sore thumb. Just classy...Is that materialistic of me? I'm a believer that a person should care about their appearance. I learned when I started my job that "nobody cares about those who don't care about themselves." Do you agree? Just think about it. Why do you think there is so much emphasis on dressing the part, the do's and don'ts of appearance. That's because it matters. Now a lot of people say "like me for who I am on the inside" and that's ok in certain situations, but most of the time that is a bunch of crap. Mainly because if you see someone who looks like a bum in a club or restaurant etc. , you won't want to give that person the time of day. Not saying you will be mean to the person, but you automatically wonder, "What was he/she thinking coming in here with that on?" I know it because I have observed how others react to people like that. Honestly, I have been that person wondering if the other person looked in the mirror before they left the house. It doesn't take a lot to look decent, but it does mean that you care about yourself if you do. It's those that put more time into the look that are much more fabulous than the next. Just my random thoughts. Am I being unreasonable?
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Wanna Be on Top???
I'm watching the season premiere of America's Next Top Model (ANTM) right now. This is definitely one of the few shows I will watch (or DVR and watch later). The show is great because I like to see the girls go through the challenges and wear different fashion designers, but one downside is......Tyra Banks. I mean, she is beautiful and definitely smart to have built a name for herself, but she is freakin crazy!!! She comes up with these crazy themes for the beginning of the shows that make no sense at all. Last season she was acting like an alien that was beamed down from space, now she is the goddess of fierce with Roman warriors around her. I just don't know what she will think of next...but I will keep watching ANTM. I rarely watch her talk show because she has some crazy stuff on that too lol!
The funniest thing on the show is that she is always talking about how she is a retired model, but always finds ways to show her modeling techniques. I mean she will literally strike a pose when she is talking whether it's happy, sad, excited, depressed, constipated etc. You get my drift...lol!
To prove a bit of her craziness, check out this video from one of the early seasons of ANTM. She went crazy, hopefully she won't do it again on this season...if she does, I'll write about it and post the video too... :-)
The funniest thing on the show is that she is always talking about how she is a retired model, but always finds ways to show her modeling techniques. I mean she will literally strike a pose when she is talking whether it's happy, sad, excited, depressed, constipated etc. You get my drift...lol!
To prove a bit of her craziness, check out this video from one of the early seasons of ANTM. She went crazy, hopefully she won't do it again on this season...if she does, I'll write about it and post the video too... :-)
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
Monday, March 2, 2009
Yeah, I'm the Birthday Girl...
It's been a minute I know since I last wrote...soooo much has happened! First of all, I am one year older than I was since my last post...yes, my birthday was yesterday! YAY me! I left Florida on Friday with plans to go to Atlanta after stopping in my home town for a bit...but my plans were overruled when the bad weather started. Ugh! It was tornado watches all around and I'm no fool...I was not going to be driving down I-20 to Atlanta getting swooped up by a tornado! We played it safe and stayed in town. At first I was feeling a little down, but you know me...always trying to see the positive in things! We ended up going out the entire weekend, trying to make up for not going on our road trip. I still had a fabulous time. I got to spend time with friends, family, and even see people I haven't seen in awhile...which is always a treat for me. We always have a great time...kicking it is what we do best :-) Oh and I do love the shopping in my hometown so I could not resist going to the mall...you know, since I didn't get to shop in Atlanta. That's the only reason I went lol! The weekend went by extra fast too. You know what they say...time flies when you are having fun!
I was in for a total surprise though when I woke up Sunday morning to snow!!! I could not believe it! It was snowing on my birthday! That has never happened to me before. I loved it. It was beautiful. Now that I live in Florida, snow is not always around the corner...so I took it all in :-) I actually took some pics on my Blackberry but am having a hard time sending them thru email. I am almost positive it's something that I'm doing wrong, but hey no biggie. The snow only lasted for several hours though. It was there that morning and had vanished by the afternoon...just in time for my birthday dinner!
Anyways, my bday celebration is not over...One of my guy friends down here in FL calls me and tells me that I'm having a bday party this Friday. I of course was confused. He basically told me not to ask any questions, just tell my girls, and be there ready to party! I am happy to oblige. I'm looking forward to it too! We will see what happens...at least I will definitely have something cute to wear since I'm apparently the guest of honor!!! :-)
And after that, the celebration is still not over!!! I celebrate my bday the entire month of March. I haven't planned everything out as good as last year, but I'm definitely going to party hard. To top it all off, at the end of the month I'll be going to Vegas on a business trip...how cool is that? Partly because it's Vegas, and partly because I don't have to pay a dime! Free trips are fine with me lol!
I am so thankful that God has allowed me to see another year, another birthday. I really appreciate those that are part of my life and are having a positive impact. I am blessed to have a loving family and fabulous friends. Happy Birthday to me!!!
I was in for a total surprise though when I woke up Sunday morning to snow!!! I could not believe it! It was snowing on my birthday! That has never happened to me before. I loved it. It was beautiful. Now that I live in Florida, snow is not always around the corner...so I took it all in :-) I actually took some pics on my Blackberry but am having a hard time sending them thru email. I am almost positive it's something that I'm doing wrong, but hey no biggie. The snow only lasted for several hours though. It was there that morning and had vanished by the afternoon...just in time for my birthday dinner!
Anyways, my bday celebration is not over...One of my guy friends down here in FL calls me and tells me that I'm having a bday party this Friday. I of course was confused. He basically told me not to ask any questions, just tell my girls, and be there ready to party! I am happy to oblige. I'm looking forward to it too! We will see what happens...at least I will definitely have something cute to wear since I'm apparently the guest of honor!!! :-)
And after that, the celebration is still not over!!! I celebrate my bday the entire month of March. I haven't planned everything out as good as last year, but I'm definitely going to party hard. To top it all off, at the end of the month I'll be going to Vegas on a business trip...how cool is that? Partly because it's Vegas, and partly because I don't have to pay a dime! Free trips are fine with me lol!
I am so thankful that God has allowed me to see another year, another birthday. I really appreciate those that are part of my life and are having a positive impact. I am blessed to have a loving family and fabulous friends. Happy Birthday to me!!!
Thursday, February 26, 2009
Babies' Mama Drama
I am getting sick and tired of hearing about the octuplets mom...she is definitely using this media coverage to her advantage. Ever been around somebody who talks a lot, but says a whole lot of nothing? Well that's her...she had an interview and proved that she does not understand the words that are coming out of her mouth!!!
So this lady just has 8 babies!! She already has 6 kids...of which she is having a hard time taking care of! I don't understand why she would keep having kids. She said in an interview that she loves children so much! Ok so deal with your own kids! She claims that all the children have the same father...who knows? And get this, apparently the father has repeatedly requested that she not use his sperm for anymore kids...but what does she do? She keeps impregnating herself, without any regard to him or the kids she is addicted to having. I believe that she has mental issues. She is educated, currently working on her master's degree but that does not mean that she is able to make rational decisions. Now, there haven't been any harmful issues with her raising her 6 kids, but now her family has more than doubled! She currently receives 3 disability checks for one with autism, one with ADHD, and one with some other issue. She also receives food stamps.
What a message she is sending! Have a whole bunch of kids that you have no idea how you're going to take care of and live off of handouts. This is why our children are suffering in America! It's not their fault, they are born into this madness. There are mothers nationwide who don't think about the consequences of having children that you can't afford, only because it is easy to get other types of government aid. Then we have the mothers and families that are struggling and doing all they can for the future of their children that receive no help. I know because I experienced that growing up. My mother was a single mom, struggling to raise my brother and I...she did this by getting up every morning and going to work. Not sitting on her behind collecting a check...
Check out this video of the octuplets mom having a spat with her mother...still can't believe this woman is getting so much media attention. She even got a million dollar offer from the porn industry...what a way to be a role model for her 14 kids...
http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/02/octomom-erupts-video-showdown-with-her-mom-over-babies.php
So this lady just has 8 babies!! She already has 6 kids...of which she is having a hard time taking care of! I don't understand why she would keep having kids. She said in an interview that she loves children so much! Ok so deal with your own kids! She claims that all the children have the same father...who knows? And get this, apparently the father has repeatedly requested that she not use his sperm for anymore kids...but what does she do? She keeps impregnating herself, without any regard to him or the kids she is addicted to having. I believe that she has mental issues. She is educated, currently working on her master's degree but that does not mean that she is able to make rational decisions. Now, there haven't been any harmful issues with her raising her 6 kids, but now her family has more than doubled! She currently receives 3 disability checks for one with autism, one with ADHD, and one with some other issue. She also receives food stamps.
What a message she is sending! Have a whole bunch of kids that you have no idea how you're going to take care of and live off of handouts. This is why our children are suffering in America! It's not their fault, they are born into this madness. There are mothers nationwide who don't think about the consequences of having children that you can't afford, only because it is easy to get other types of government aid. Then we have the mothers and families that are struggling and doing all they can for the future of their children that receive no help. I know because I experienced that growing up. My mother was a single mom, struggling to raise my brother and I...she did this by getting up every morning and going to work. Not sitting on her behind collecting a check...
Check out this video of the octuplets mom having a spat with her mother...still can't believe this woman is getting so much media attention. She even got a million dollar offer from the porn industry...what a way to be a role model for her 14 kids...
http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/02/octomom-erupts-video-showdown-with-her-mom-over-babies.php
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
No Speak English??
My bday is almost here! Only 5 more days...YAY! In honor of S.H. I must say "Whoo Hoo! Whoo Hoo!" and do the dance LOL! Though my special day is on Sunday, I will be leaving Friday to begin my weekend celebration. I guess I can get excited now, although I still do not know what I want. I really haven't had time to think about gifts. I am just thankful for another birthday. And to prove it, I'm going to kick it extra hard!!!!
There is so much to do before the weekend. I have to get my hair done, get a new outfit, pack for the trip etc. I still have time though. I got my nails done today. When I first started going to this shop, I was content because the nail techs did not speak Vietnamese in front of me. But whoa! I was in for a surprise a couple of months ago when it all started. I think it to be so rude that I am a customer, sitting directly in front of your face and you speak in another language. What kinda mess is that? I'm pretty sure I'm going to invest in Rosetta Stone so that I can learn their language. Think of how surprised they would be if I'm sitting there all quiet then burst into Vietnamese chatter with them at any moment! I would love to see the look on their faces. HAHAHA! Maybe I should tell them? Do they know how rude that is? I think it's probably more so rude because they are probably talking about me. That's what I would do if I had another language and wanted to talk about someone who was sitting near me...LOL! Now I am contradicting myself...I'm not saying I would do it, but I'm saying that if I had to rationalize it, that only makes sense. This must be what the nail techs think. They don't want to just tell me in English that I am holding my hand the wrong way, they have to inform each other I guess. I have to start my plan of action in this area. Rosetta Stone it is...Hey if Michael Phelps can do it, and he was high on marijuana, then I can surely rock it out!
There is so much to do before the weekend. I have to get my hair done, get a new outfit, pack for the trip etc. I still have time though. I got my nails done today. When I first started going to this shop, I was content because the nail techs did not speak Vietnamese in front of me. But whoa! I was in for a surprise a couple of months ago when it all started. I think it to be so rude that I am a customer, sitting directly in front of your face and you speak in another language. What kinda mess is that? I'm pretty sure I'm going to invest in Rosetta Stone so that I can learn their language. Think of how surprised they would be if I'm sitting there all quiet then burst into Vietnamese chatter with them at any moment! I would love to see the look on their faces. HAHAHA! Maybe I should tell them? Do they know how rude that is? I think it's probably more so rude because they are probably talking about me. That's what I would do if I had another language and wanted to talk about someone who was sitting near me...LOL! Now I am contradicting myself...I'm not saying I would do it, but I'm saying that if I had to rationalize it, that only makes sense. This must be what the nail techs think. They don't want to just tell me in English that I am holding my hand the wrong way, they have to inform each other I guess. I have to start my plan of action in this area. Rosetta Stone it is...Hey if Michael Phelps can do it, and he was high on marijuana, then I can surely rock it out!
Monday, February 23, 2009
What Part Will You Play?
I've recently gotten to the point where I am truly able to let things and people go. It's not easy by any means, but sometimes God will let you know that it is time to move on. I am glad too. The difficult process of giving up dead weight in your life, only makes the journey easier without the extra baggage. I remember reading an email from a friend stating that people will be put in your life for a reason, a season, and a lifetime.
People enter your life for a reason because there is a lesson to be learned or a trial to be overcome. That particular person may help with something you are having difficulty with and keep you encouraged through it all. Then without warning or wrongdoing on your part, that person may leave you. I think about people that I know that have been in my life for a reason but are not here anymore. It hurts. Especially when you have to let someone go that has had such an impact on your life. I learned from my experiences with those people, and it has made me stronger. It is important to realize though, that whatever happened, the lesson has been learned and it was time for them to be released from your life. It is time to move on!
People entering your life for just a season usually bring a tremendous amount of joy. They are there to share great memories with you. There may be much laughter and experiencing things you have never done before. But like the seasons change, so will your relationship with that person. And we all know that seasons end, as does this relationship. I have someone that was placed in my life for a season. He brought me so much joy and peace. Then one day, it dawned on me that it was time for me to let him go. Letting go of someone who has been in your life for a season is sooooo hard. You get accustomed to that person, and cannot imagine life without them. But God always has a plan and he will let us know that life does indeed go on.
Last but not least, lifetime relationships present lifelong lessons. This may be a case where someone has hurt you badly. You must learn from that experience and forgive that person. When you don't forgive, a person will take power over you. Let it go. Pick up and move on and know better when you are in other relationships throughout life. That is a part of growing. Learning not only from your mistakes, but other peoples' as well. I have learned a great deal from previous relationships and I strive to make every one better than the last.
This is my spill for this Monday. I was thinking about all the people in my life that I have been blessed to know...even my enemies. I am thankful for my experiences. They make me the fabulous woman that I am... :-)
People enter your life for a reason because there is a lesson to be learned or a trial to be overcome. That particular person may help with something you are having difficulty with and keep you encouraged through it all. Then without warning or wrongdoing on your part, that person may leave you. I think about people that I know that have been in my life for a reason but are not here anymore. It hurts. Especially when you have to let someone go that has had such an impact on your life. I learned from my experiences with those people, and it has made me stronger. It is important to realize though, that whatever happened, the lesson has been learned and it was time for them to be released from your life. It is time to move on!
People entering your life for just a season usually bring a tremendous amount of joy. They are there to share great memories with you. There may be much laughter and experiencing things you have never done before. But like the seasons change, so will your relationship with that person. And we all know that seasons end, as does this relationship. I have someone that was placed in my life for a season. He brought me so much joy and peace. Then one day, it dawned on me that it was time for me to let him go. Letting go of someone who has been in your life for a season is sooooo hard. You get accustomed to that person, and cannot imagine life without them. But God always has a plan and he will let us know that life does indeed go on.
Last but not least, lifetime relationships present lifelong lessons. This may be a case where someone has hurt you badly. You must learn from that experience and forgive that person. When you don't forgive, a person will take power over you. Let it go. Pick up and move on and know better when you are in other relationships throughout life. That is a part of growing. Learning not only from your mistakes, but other peoples' as well. I have learned a great deal from previous relationships and I strive to make every one better than the last.
This is my spill for this Monday. I was thinking about all the people in my life that I have been blessed to know...even my enemies. I am thankful for my experiences. They make me the fabulous woman that I am... :-)
Sunday, February 22, 2009
25 Random Things
There's this note on facebook that has been going around called 25 Random things...I got sucked into this, but it's actually a great way for others to learn things about you they otherwise wouldn't know. Here goes...
1. I love the Lord so much! He has been better to me than I have been to myself.
2. My mother and brother are like my babies…I love them, and take care of them.
3. I have a great job that I am thankful for.
4. Family is extremely important to me.
5. My favorite movie is The Breakfast Club and usually, no one knows what it is.
6. I hate when women want a man for all the things he can do for her (buying jewelry, putting rims on the car lol) although she is not bringing anything to the table herself. Take care of yourselves first you bums!
7. I do not believe that all men are dogs.
8. Men think that women don’t have things figured out when most times we actually do…that’s amusing to me.
9. I love google. When I don’t know something, I google it.
10. I have a small, close group of friends that I let into my life…don’t try to figure anything out about me. I will not display my life on facebook..this note is it :-)
11. I have found that I am stronger than I thought, and so is my faith.
12. I have road rage…I drive all day and get irritated when people stop me from carrying on with my life.
13. Nothing happens by chance.
14. Name it and claim it…that’s my life motto.
15. Traveling is a stress reliever for me. I do it cause I can and am able…no husband, no kids. Just me and whomever wants to go.
16. Ne-yo's song miss independent is about me lol!
17. I’m confident in who I am and appreciate those who appreciate my fabulosity :-)
18. I always look for ways to better myself spiritually, mentally, physically.
19. As I get older, I have noticed that I have a decreased tolerance for ignorance/stupidity.
20. I love the single ladies dance by Beyonce and pretty much got it down pat…although I can’t work it like the guys on youtube.
21. President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle are fabulous! So are Sasha and Malia!
22. I went to the inauguration and have never experienced something so cool…I made history.
23. I find it strange that some people can tell their problems to facebook but can’t tell God.
24. I love…love
25. I don’t like when men approach me the wrong way…all the extra lines are not necessary. Just saying hey is ok…gosh!
Looking over this list...there are tons of things that I could have added, but these are just randoms that were on my mind at the time. Maybe I will start to like this list thing...I have some ideas running through my head right now :-)
1. I love the Lord so much! He has been better to me than I have been to myself.
2. My mother and brother are like my babies…I love them, and take care of them.
3. I have a great job that I am thankful for.
4. Family is extremely important to me.
5. My favorite movie is The Breakfast Club and usually, no one knows what it is.
6. I hate when women want a man for all the things he can do for her (buying jewelry, putting rims on the car lol) although she is not bringing anything to the table herself. Take care of yourselves first you bums!
7. I do not believe that all men are dogs.
8. Men think that women don’t have things figured out when most times we actually do…that’s amusing to me.
9. I love google. When I don’t know something, I google it.
10. I have a small, close group of friends that I let into my life…don’t try to figure anything out about me. I will not display my life on facebook..this note is it :-)
11. I have found that I am stronger than I thought, and so is my faith.
12. I have road rage…I drive all day and get irritated when people stop me from carrying on with my life.
13. Nothing happens by chance.
14. Name it and claim it…that’s my life motto.
15. Traveling is a stress reliever for me. I do it cause I can and am able…no husband, no kids. Just me and whomever wants to go.
16. Ne-yo's song miss independent is about me lol!
17. I’m confident in who I am and appreciate those who appreciate my fabulosity :-)
18. I always look for ways to better myself spiritually, mentally, physically.
19. As I get older, I have noticed that I have a decreased tolerance for ignorance/stupidity.
20. I love the single ladies dance by Beyonce and pretty much got it down pat…although I can’t work it like the guys on youtube.
21. President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle are fabulous! So are Sasha and Malia!
22. I went to the inauguration and have never experienced something so cool…I made history.
23. I find it strange that some people can tell their problems to facebook but can’t tell God.
24. I love…love
25. I don’t like when men approach me the wrong way…all the extra lines are not necessary. Just saying hey is ok…gosh!
Looking over this list...there are tons of things that I could have added, but these are just randoms that were on my mind at the time. Maybe I will start to like this list thing...I have some ideas running through my head right now :-)
Friday, February 20, 2009
Are you talkin to me????
It amazes me how some people communicate...especially when they don't know how. Since we were kids, we have been taught the correct way to say things to people. At least most of us were. It's not really that hard. At least not for me. A big part of my job is effective communication, so I pride myself on knowing what to say, and when to say it. Why this rant on communication? Well I'll tell you.
I finished up a lunch with some clients today and there was this man in the building standing near us. I peeped him when I was talking to some other folk and I already knew what was coming because of the way he was looking at me. During my conversation, he interrupted to ask me if I had any pens to give away. I politely said no. He stood there staring and I kept on talking trying finish the point I was making. We started in on Mardi Gras festivities, and I asked them if they were going to Mardi Gras...this dude interrupted again, this time wanting to know if I was going to Mardi Gras like if I was going, then we could go together or something. I told him no, politely still. He stood there staring, still! I was watching him out of the corner of my eye because I knew that once I was on my way out to my car, he was going to try to walk with me. I didn't want that. I hate for random dudes to walk me to my car. I guess it's a city thing. One can never be too careful! Anyway, when I'm on my way out of the building he is doing the same. Of course! And this is what he says..."Hey baaaaaaaabbbbbyyyy, you got any kids??" It kinda startled me cause he was so much quieter inside. "Nope, no kids" I said while walking away. "You married baaaaaabby?" He asked. "Almost there!" I replied never looking back. He proceeded to say congrats while watching me walk away and mumbling...Hmm Hmm Hmm! Just so you know, "almost there" does not mean I'm getting married soon, or even have a prospect. Almost there could mean yeah I'm single, but I'll be getting married next lol! So in a sense it was not a lie. This man had to be about 30 years older than me! Why would I be interested?
I find it sad that men approach women in the most awful ways. No, I'm not talking about all men...just some. What would have been wrong with asking me my name? What about how are you doing? This is basic...no big words necessary. No, I'm not upset about this particular man, but in general this is how it goes. For every 2 men that approach me politely, there are about 20 men that just can't get right! Some guys will even get mad if you don't wanna give them the time of day. What makes them think that just because they are interested, we should be interested? How crazy is that? My boss used to say the definition of insanity is doing the same thing you've always done, expecting to get different results. Get a clue dudes! If you ain't getting play from females with your whack lines, try something different. Hopefully something better! Nothing is guaranteed, but at least a 'what is your name' or 'how are you' will get something other than a roll of the eyes. At least from the classy females. I can't speak for the chickenheads. LOL!
I finished up a lunch with some clients today and there was this man in the building standing near us. I peeped him when I was talking to some other folk and I already knew what was coming because of the way he was looking at me. During my conversation, he interrupted to ask me if I had any pens to give away. I politely said no. He stood there staring and I kept on talking trying finish the point I was making. We started in on Mardi Gras festivities, and I asked them if they were going to Mardi Gras...this dude interrupted again, this time wanting to know if I was going to Mardi Gras like if I was going, then we could go together or something. I told him no, politely still. He stood there staring, still! I was watching him out of the corner of my eye because I knew that once I was on my way out to my car, he was going to try to walk with me. I didn't want that. I hate for random dudes to walk me to my car. I guess it's a city thing. One can never be too careful! Anyway, when I'm on my way out of the building he is doing the same. Of course! And this is what he says..."Hey baaaaaaaabbbbbyyyy, you got any kids??" It kinda startled me cause he was so much quieter inside. "Nope, no kids" I said while walking away. "You married baaaaaabby?" He asked. "Almost there!" I replied never looking back. He proceeded to say congrats while watching me walk away and mumbling...Hmm Hmm Hmm! Just so you know, "almost there" does not mean I'm getting married soon, or even have a prospect. Almost there could mean yeah I'm single, but I'll be getting married next lol! So in a sense it was not a lie. This man had to be about 30 years older than me! Why would I be interested?
I find it sad that men approach women in the most awful ways. No, I'm not talking about all men...just some. What would have been wrong with asking me my name? What about how are you doing? This is basic...no big words necessary. No, I'm not upset about this particular man, but in general this is how it goes. For every 2 men that approach me politely, there are about 20 men that just can't get right! Some guys will even get mad if you don't wanna give them the time of day. What makes them think that just because they are interested, we should be interested? How crazy is that? My boss used to say the definition of insanity is doing the same thing you've always done, expecting to get different results. Get a clue dudes! If you ain't getting play from females with your whack lines, try something different. Hopefully something better! Nothing is guaranteed, but at least a 'what is your name' or 'how are you' will get something other than a roll of the eyes. At least from the classy females. I can't speak for the chickenheads. LOL!
Thursday, February 19, 2009
The Countdown Has Begun!!!
My bday is fastly approaching! I can't believe it's almost here. I have been so busy with work and life that I almost forgot about my birthday...how could I? It's only one of my favorite days of the year!!! I was slipping this year though, because usually there is something planned waaaaaaay in advance, but not this time. Thankfully, I have the best chics as friends! They truly are fabulous, so they helped me to plan a road trip for my bday. At first the plan was to go to NYC to do a double bday celebration with one of my girls, but that didn't happen for me because of work reasons. I was really upset about it at first, but hey what could I do? So, even though that didn't happen, another friend of mine suggested going to Atlanta. Now, we don't kick it in Atlanta alot so it's cool to get away from home sometimes. Especially when I'm with my girls. We are so freakin fabulous...and we always have a blast!! I guess I can get more excited about it since it's going down next weekend.
I swear, I have the best friends a girl could have. It's funny because we all have our own personalities, unique in many ways...yet we mesh so well together. We have learned alot from each other, and we're always there no matter what. We have made a pact to always travel somewhere for everyone's bday. We are blessed to be able to travel where we want, when we want. No husband, and no kids makes it easier for real :-) So, we are known as always being somewhere. I think you should enjoy your life while you can. That's exactly what we do...have a blast in life while still keeping it classy! There's a difference you know.
I haven't been shopping in awhile...let me take that back, I have been to the mall but just didn't see anything that I really liked, so I need to go buy me a cute dress or two to wear for my bday celebration. Gotta look fab for my day! There's so much to do in so little time it seems. I know one thing, this is going to be yet another memorable bday. Since I haven't been on my planning like I usually am, I tried to make out an itinerary for the weekend. I know, such a nerd. But really it's a must because we will get there and nobody will know what to do...so I'll just show them what I planned lol! Don't get me wrong, we all agree on things, no one is forced to do something they don't want to do...but I just lay down the foundation. Me and my other friend call ourselves the co-captains. We work well together and plan everything. It works cause things usually go smoothly...usually! :-)
My mom keeps asking me what I want for my bday. As I've gotten older, I really don't have an answer. It doesn't really matter to me what she gets me cause it's the thought that counts. Either way it's going to be something that I will appreciate. I'm not into making long lists of things I want. I buy things for myself that I want. I don't believe that people are obligated to give me gifts. Not even my current guy friend. He asked me too. Don't even know what to tell him. Some people would think I was crazy, but that's just how it is with me. But if someone wants to buy me something I appreciate that too!!! lol! I am thankful for everything I have...I never take things for granted...tangible or intangible.
I still have a week and a several days to go along with my life before the big day, and I really don't know how in the world I'm going to focus! We'll see what happens!
I swear, I have the best friends a girl could have. It's funny because we all have our own personalities, unique in many ways...yet we mesh so well together. We have learned alot from each other, and we're always there no matter what. We have made a pact to always travel somewhere for everyone's bday. We are blessed to be able to travel where we want, when we want. No husband, and no kids makes it easier for real :-) So, we are known as always being somewhere. I think you should enjoy your life while you can. That's exactly what we do...have a blast in life while still keeping it classy! There's a difference you know.
I haven't been shopping in awhile...let me take that back, I have been to the mall but just didn't see anything that I really liked, so I need to go buy me a cute dress or two to wear for my bday celebration. Gotta look fab for my day! There's so much to do in so little time it seems. I know one thing, this is going to be yet another memorable bday. Since I haven't been on my planning like I usually am, I tried to make out an itinerary for the weekend. I know, such a nerd. But really it's a must because we will get there and nobody will know what to do...so I'll just show them what I planned lol! Don't get me wrong, we all agree on things, no one is forced to do something they don't want to do...but I just lay down the foundation. Me and my other friend call ourselves the co-captains. We work well together and plan everything. It works cause things usually go smoothly...usually! :-)
My mom keeps asking me what I want for my bday. As I've gotten older, I really don't have an answer. It doesn't really matter to me what she gets me cause it's the thought that counts. Either way it's going to be something that I will appreciate. I'm not into making long lists of things I want. I buy things for myself that I want. I don't believe that people are obligated to give me gifts. Not even my current guy friend. He asked me too. Don't even know what to tell him. Some people would think I was crazy, but that's just how it is with me. But if someone wants to buy me something I appreciate that too!!! lol! I am thankful for everything I have...I never take things for granted...tangible or intangible.
I still have a week and a several days to go along with my life before the big day, and I really don't know how in the world I'm going to focus! We'll see what happens!
Monday, February 16, 2009
No wonder Americans are so obese!!
I'm off work today for the holiday (President's Day). This is cool cause it gives me time to do things I didn't get to do this weekend, like go grocery shopping. Believe me, it was much needed. My fridge was bare! I made a decision to start cooking more at home. I do cook, and I cook good, but just not enough. I looked over my finances and discovered that last month I spent $330 just on dining out. I know, that is alot! It kinda disgusted me. I don't eat fast food much, because when I do, it's like I can feel my arteries clogging! Ugh! So when I don't have food in the fridge, I just eat out at local restaurants. This is where the more healthy foods are...the grilled salmon, mixed veggies, sushi (even if it's not I still love it), grilled tilapia etc. So I would end up spending $20 or so every time I ordered take out. On top of that, when friends wanna go out for lunch/dinner I never hesitate. Shame on me...I had to make a change. I decided this last week after I was reading The Automatic Millionaire in conjunction with Suze Orman's Young, Fabulous & Broke and the books mentioned knowing exactly where your money was going. So, like I said, when I found out how much of my money was going towards dining out, I was disgusted.
I needed a change so I went grocery shopping today. I love Publix, but really they are too expensive and I didn't have any coupons. So I visited good ole' Walmart. I hate Walmart with a passion, but hey their prices are cheaper so I deal with it. Going up and down each aisle, I noticed that all the healthy foods I wanted were so much more expensive than the not-so-healthy foods with preservatives and such. For example, I only drink 100% fruit juice. The 100% orange juice was almost $3...the juice with only about 5% fruit juice was less than $1!!! That's crazy to me! Even the low calorie Pringles were almost $2 more than the regular Pringles. Oh and don't get me started on the canned veggies.
I think it's so sad that some Americans are forced to choose foods that may not be best for them, because these stores have healthier foods at a higher price! Some people don't even stand a chance!!!! And stats show that the greatest number of obese Americans are where? You guessed it...the SOUTH! Gosh! Think about the children growing up that are missing out on essential fruits and veggies because parents can't afford to buy healthy...they buy cheap. Thus the cycle continues. I need to find out if there is someone I can write to about this nonsense. I mean come on, why must we keep contributing to the fatness of our society. I saw 2 kids in Starbucks the other day with enormous ice cream cones...now, ice cream is cool sometimes, but the kids were already obese! And get this, the mom was as thin as a toothpick!
I understand that there are some things that will never change, so I'll just keep on buying my healthy foods and try to keep myself out of the obese range (really working on that LOL!)...If I don't do it who will?
I needed a change so I went grocery shopping today. I love Publix, but really they are too expensive and I didn't have any coupons. So I visited good ole' Walmart. I hate Walmart with a passion, but hey their prices are cheaper so I deal with it. Going up and down each aisle, I noticed that all the healthy foods I wanted were so much more expensive than the not-so-healthy foods with preservatives and such. For example, I only drink 100% fruit juice. The 100% orange juice was almost $3...the juice with only about 5% fruit juice was less than $1!!! That's crazy to me! Even the low calorie Pringles were almost $2 more than the regular Pringles. Oh and don't get me started on the canned veggies.
I think it's so sad that some Americans are forced to choose foods that may not be best for them, because these stores have healthier foods at a higher price! Some people don't even stand a chance!!!! And stats show that the greatest number of obese Americans are where? You guessed it...the SOUTH! Gosh! Think about the children growing up that are missing out on essential fruits and veggies because parents can't afford to buy healthy...they buy cheap. Thus the cycle continues. I need to find out if there is someone I can write to about this nonsense. I mean come on, why must we keep contributing to the fatness of our society. I saw 2 kids in Starbucks the other day with enormous ice cream cones...now, ice cream is cool sometimes, but the kids were already obese! And get this, the mom was as thin as a toothpick!
I understand that there are some things that will never change, so I'll just keep on buying my healthy foods and try to keep myself out of the obese range (really working on that LOL!)...If I don't do it who will?
Sunday, February 15, 2009
Who are they going to choose next? Gosh!
Reality shows are extremely popular these days...I haven't really figured out why yet. Maybe because I haven't tried, but really, things are getting out of control now! Specifically, I am talking about these shows were people are trying to find love. It all started with Flava Flav (that strange looking man) wanting to find love. And boy did he have a task ahead of him! Some, no most of those women needed a lesson in class! Then came along I Love New York, and she is something else! After New York, Real and Chance from her previous shows tried to take on the task of finding love. I'm pretty sure it will be a season two soon. I know because I watched it...LOL! Hey, it pulls me in whether I like it or not. One show that I refuse to watch is For the Love of Ray J!! Are you kidding me? Ray J? The no-singing brother of Brandy? He has his own reality show now...I'm shaking my head because I still can't believe it! I haven't watched his show and will not because VH1 needs to learn that we only want to know about the lives of those who matter... :-) I know, I know...it must sound like I hate Ray J, but really I don't care about Ray J! That's why I won't watch it! If I had my pick though, I would love for someone like Oprah to have her own reality show, she should find love lol!...maybe even some other celebrity. It's fun to see what goes on in their lives. At least it is to me. I wonder who they will get next...think about it. The list could be sillier than you think. I should start posting randoms from my life on youtube and then maybe I could be the next reality star. It seems to work for everybody else...just a thought ;-)
Following My Passion
I finally did it! I've always wanted to start my own business, but never went through with it. Now, I can say that I am an entrepreneur! I launched SimplySavvy Resumes last month and the rest is history!
I created the website on my own and am extremely proud of it. I never would have imagined that I would start the business, but here I am!
I have a passion for helping others better their career lives. I'm the type who wants the best for everybody. I want everyone to succeed. SimplySavvy Resumes gives me the chance to do so. I write and revise resumes and other business documents. God has truly blessed me in this venture. I have received tons of support from family, friends, and even people that I don't know. How cool is that? :-) Anyway, I am so confident that things will continue to go well with SimplySavvy!
There are so many people out there who have resumes that do not market their skills effectively. This can be detrimental to a job search whether they know it or not. The thing about it is, it does not have to be. I want to change all that. SimplySavvy Resumes will change all that!
http://www.embracesavvy.webs.com
I created the website on my own and am extremely proud of it. I never would have imagined that I would start the business, but here I am!
I have a passion for helping others better their career lives. I'm the type who wants the best for everybody. I want everyone to succeed. SimplySavvy Resumes gives me the chance to do so. I write and revise resumes and other business documents. God has truly blessed me in this venture. I have received tons of support from family, friends, and even people that I don't know. How cool is that? :-) Anyway, I am so confident that things will continue to go well with SimplySavvy!
There are so many people out there who have resumes that do not market their skills effectively. This can be detrimental to a job search whether they know it or not. The thing about it is, it does not have to be. I want to change all that. SimplySavvy Resumes will change all that!
http://www.embracesavvy.webs.com
Keeping my job...
So my company, along with tons of others this year announced layoffs. It just seems that one company decides to hack its employees and the other ones say, "Hey! That's a great idea! Let's do it now while everyone is doing it!!"
Thankfully, I still have my job. I must say though, it was stressful for me. It's not easy to move on when your employer tells you they are letting you go and there's nothing you did wrong. If companies only laid off employees that were rotten and didn't care about their job then that would be one thing, but to lay off people who are great employees with great potential is a bit unnerving. I know because I have been there and done that.
What's sad is that I know plenty of people all over the US who don't have a job now. That really sucks! And in reality, now is not the time to be looking for a job. My mom always says that it's easier to look for a job when you have one. When you are laid off and job hunting, sometimes you have to settle for whatever comes your way. This is how I see it.
On the other hand, I frequent Monster and Careerbuilder sites and they have tons of jobs posted. I guess it really just depends on the candidate and their skills and qualifications. I am hopeful that the job outlook will get better sooner rather than later. This is definitely me being the optimistic person that I am. It will all work out for the greater good...
Thankfully, I still have my job. I must say though, it was stressful for me. It's not easy to move on when your employer tells you they are letting you go and there's nothing you did wrong. If companies only laid off employees that were rotten and didn't care about their job then that would be one thing, but to lay off people who are great employees with great potential is a bit unnerving. I know because I have been there and done that.
What's sad is that I know plenty of people all over the US who don't have a job now. That really sucks! And in reality, now is not the time to be looking for a job. My mom always says that it's easier to look for a job when you have one. When you are laid off and job hunting, sometimes you have to settle for whatever comes your way. This is how I see it.
On the other hand, I frequent Monster and Careerbuilder sites and they have tons of jobs posted. I guess it really just depends on the candidate and their skills and qualifications. I am hopeful that the job outlook will get better sooner rather than later. This is definitely me being the optimistic person that I am. It will all work out for the greater good...
Act One: The Start of Expression
Today is my day of relaxation...Sunday. Usually I am getting prepared for another work week. Fortunately, I have one more day to prepare myself since we are off for President's Day. That is just fabulous. Being off on a weekday is so refreshing, as long as it's not a sick day :-(
Anywhoo, life is good. I have my health, family, friends, a job that I love and most importantly...this new blog where I can express my deepest emotions. I want this blog to speak for me. I want these Random Acts of Life to tell who I am, where I am, and where I wanna be. I'm a big believer in letting it all out. It is a therapy. Writing is my therapy.
I am very opinionated. I have views on everything. These opinions can come from my life experiences, morals/values, things I have read, people I have talked to etc. I know that I don't know everything, but I take pride in knowing a lot and learning things that I don't know. I feel that something I say, even if it is of little importance, may have an impact on someone else's life. If I can do that, then I'm good :-)
Anywhoo, life is good. I have my health, family, friends, a job that I love and most importantly...this new blog where I can express my deepest emotions. I want this blog to speak for me. I want these Random Acts of Life to tell who I am, where I am, and where I wanna be. I'm a big believer in letting it all out. It is a therapy. Writing is my therapy.
I am very opinionated. I have views on everything. These opinions can come from my life experiences, morals/values, things I have read, people I have talked to etc. I know that I don't know everything, but I take pride in knowing a lot and learning things that I don't know. I feel that something I say, even if it is of little importance, may have an impact on someone else's life. If I can do that, then I'm good :-)
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