I am getting sick and tired of hearing about the octuplets mom...she is definitely using this media coverage to her advantage. Ever been around somebody who talks a lot, but says a whole lot of nothing? Well that's her...she had an interview and proved that she does not understand the words that are coming out of her mouth!!!
So this lady just has 8 babies!! She already has 6 kids...of which she is having a hard time taking care of! I don't understand why she would keep having kids. She said in an interview that she loves children so much! Ok so deal with your own kids! She claims that all the children have the same father...who knows? And get this, apparently the father has repeatedly requested that she not use his sperm for anymore kids...but what does she do? She keeps impregnating herself, without any regard to him or the kids she is addicted to having. I believe that she has mental issues. She is educated, currently working on her master's degree but that does not mean that she is able to make rational decisions. Now, there haven't been any harmful issues with her raising her 6 kids, but now her family has more than doubled! She currently receives 3 disability checks for one with autism, one with ADHD, and one with some other issue. She also receives food stamps.
What a message she is sending! Have a whole bunch of kids that you have no idea how you're going to take care of and live off of handouts. This is why our children are suffering in America! It's not their fault, they are born into this madness. There are mothers nationwide who don't think about the consequences of having children that you can't afford, only because it is easy to get other types of government aid. Then we have the mothers and families that are struggling and doing all they can for the future of their children that receive no help. I know because I experienced that growing up. My mother was a single mom, struggling to raise my brother and I...she did this by getting up every morning and going to work. Not sitting on her behind collecting a check...
Check out this video of the octuplets mom having a spat with her mother...still can't believe this woman is getting so much media attention. She even got a million dollar offer from the porn industry...what a way to be a role model for her 14 kids...
http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/02/octomom-erupts-video-showdown-with-her-mom-over-babies.php
Thursday, February 26, 2009
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
No Speak English??
My bday is almost here! Only 5 more days...YAY! In honor of S.H. I must say "Whoo Hoo! Whoo Hoo!" and do the dance LOL! Though my special day is on Sunday, I will be leaving Friday to begin my weekend celebration. I guess I can get excited now, although I still do not know what I want. I really haven't had time to think about gifts. I am just thankful for another birthday. And to prove it, I'm going to kick it extra hard!!!!
There is so much to do before the weekend. I have to get my hair done, get a new outfit, pack for the trip etc. I still have time though. I got my nails done today. When I first started going to this shop, I was content because the nail techs did not speak Vietnamese in front of me. But whoa! I was in for a surprise a couple of months ago when it all started. I think it to be so rude that I am a customer, sitting directly in front of your face and you speak in another language. What kinda mess is that? I'm pretty sure I'm going to invest in Rosetta Stone so that I can learn their language. Think of how surprised they would be if I'm sitting there all quiet then burst into Vietnamese chatter with them at any moment! I would love to see the look on their faces. HAHAHA! Maybe I should tell them? Do they know how rude that is? I think it's probably more so rude because they are probably talking about me. That's what I would do if I had another language and wanted to talk about someone who was sitting near me...LOL! Now I am contradicting myself...I'm not saying I would do it, but I'm saying that if I had to rationalize it, that only makes sense. This must be what the nail techs think. They don't want to just tell me in English that I am holding my hand the wrong way, they have to inform each other I guess. I have to start my plan of action in this area. Rosetta Stone it is...Hey if Michael Phelps can do it, and he was high on marijuana, then I can surely rock it out!
There is so much to do before the weekend. I have to get my hair done, get a new outfit, pack for the trip etc. I still have time though. I got my nails done today. When I first started going to this shop, I was content because the nail techs did not speak Vietnamese in front of me. But whoa! I was in for a surprise a couple of months ago when it all started. I think it to be so rude that I am a customer, sitting directly in front of your face and you speak in another language. What kinda mess is that? I'm pretty sure I'm going to invest in Rosetta Stone so that I can learn their language. Think of how surprised they would be if I'm sitting there all quiet then burst into Vietnamese chatter with them at any moment! I would love to see the look on their faces. HAHAHA! Maybe I should tell them? Do they know how rude that is? I think it's probably more so rude because they are probably talking about me. That's what I would do if I had another language and wanted to talk about someone who was sitting near me...LOL! Now I am contradicting myself...I'm not saying I would do it, but I'm saying that if I had to rationalize it, that only makes sense. This must be what the nail techs think. They don't want to just tell me in English that I am holding my hand the wrong way, they have to inform each other I guess. I have to start my plan of action in this area. Rosetta Stone it is...Hey if Michael Phelps can do it, and he was high on marijuana, then I can surely rock it out!
Monday, February 23, 2009
What Part Will You Play?
I've recently gotten to the point where I am truly able to let things and people go. It's not easy by any means, but sometimes God will let you know that it is time to move on. I am glad too. The difficult process of giving up dead weight in your life, only makes the journey easier without the extra baggage. I remember reading an email from a friend stating that people will be put in your life for a reason, a season, and a lifetime.
People enter your life for a reason because there is a lesson to be learned or a trial to be overcome. That particular person may help with something you are having difficulty with and keep you encouraged through it all. Then without warning or wrongdoing on your part, that person may leave you. I think about people that I know that have been in my life for a reason but are not here anymore. It hurts. Especially when you have to let someone go that has had such an impact on your life. I learned from my experiences with those people, and it has made me stronger. It is important to realize though, that whatever happened, the lesson has been learned and it was time for them to be released from your life. It is time to move on!
People entering your life for just a season usually bring a tremendous amount of joy. They are there to share great memories with you. There may be much laughter and experiencing things you have never done before. But like the seasons change, so will your relationship with that person. And we all know that seasons end, as does this relationship. I have someone that was placed in my life for a season. He brought me so much joy and peace. Then one day, it dawned on me that it was time for me to let him go. Letting go of someone who has been in your life for a season is sooooo hard. You get accustomed to that person, and cannot imagine life without them. But God always has a plan and he will let us know that life does indeed go on.
Last but not least, lifetime relationships present lifelong lessons. This may be a case where someone has hurt you badly. You must learn from that experience and forgive that person. When you don't forgive, a person will take power over you. Let it go. Pick up and move on and know better when you are in other relationships throughout life. That is a part of growing. Learning not only from your mistakes, but other peoples' as well. I have learned a great deal from previous relationships and I strive to make every one better than the last.
This is my spill for this Monday. I was thinking about all the people in my life that I have been blessed to know...even my enemies. I am thankful for my experiences. They make me the fabulous woman that I am... :-)
People enter your life for a reason because there is a lesson to be learned or a trial to be overcome. That particular person may help with something you are having difficulty with and keep you encouraged through it all. Then without warning or wrongdoing on your part, that person may leave you. I think about people that I know that have been in my life for a reason but are not here anymore. It hurts. Especially when you have to let someone go that has had such an impact on your life. I learned from my experiences with those people, and it has made me stronger. It is important to realize though, that whatever happened, the lesson has been learned and it was time for them to be released from your life. It is time to move on!
People entering your life for just a season usually bring a tremendous amount of joy. They are there to share great memories with you. There may be much laughter and experiencing things you have never done before. But like the seasons change, so will your relationship with that person. And we all know that seasons end, as does this relationship. I have someone that was placed in my life for a season. He brought me so much joy and peace. Then one day, it dawned on me that it was time for me to let him go. Letting go of someone who has been in your life for a season is sooooo hard. You get accustomed to that person, and cannot imagine life without them. But God always has a plan and he will let us know that life does indeed go on.
Last but not least, lifetime relationships present lifelong lessons. This may be a case where someone has hurt you badly. You must learn from that experience and forgive that person. When you don't forgive, a person will take power over you. Let it go. Pick up and move on and know better when you are in other relationships throughout life. That is a part of growing. Learning not only from your mistakes, but other peoples' as well. I have learned a great deal from previous relationships and I strive to make every one better than the last.
This is my spill for this Monday. I was thinking about all the people in my life that I have been blessed to know...even my enemies. I am thankful for my experiences. They make me the fabulous woman that I am... :-)
Sunday, February 22, 2009
25 Random Things
There's this note on facebook that has been going around called 25 Random things...I got sucked into this, but it's actually a great way for others to learn things about you they otherwise wouldn't know. Here goes...
1. I love the Lord so much! He has been better to me than I have been to myself.
2. My mother and brother are like my babies…I love them, and take care of them.
3. I have a great job that I am thankful for.
4. Family is extremely important to me.
5. My favorite movie is The Breakfast Club and usually, no one knows what it is.
6. I hate when women want a man for all the things he can do for her (buying jewelry, putting rims on the car lol) although she is not bringing anything to the table herself. Take care of yourselves first you bums!
7. I do not believe that all men are dogs.
8. Men think that women don’t have things figured out when most times we actually do…that’s amusing to me.
9. I love google. When I don’t know something, I google it.
10. I have a small, close group of friends that I let into my life…don’t try to figure anything out about me. I will not display my life on facebook..this note is it :-)
11. I have found that I am stronger than I thought, and so is my faith.
12. I have road rage…I drive all day and get irritated when people stop me from carrying on with my life.
13. Nothing happens by chance.
14. Name it and claim it…that’s my life motto.
15. Traveling is a stress reliever for me. I do it cause I can and am able…no husband, no kids. Just me and whomever wants to go.
16. Ne-yo's song miss independent is about me lol!
17. I’m confident in who I am and appreciate those who appreciate my fabulosity :-)
18. I always look for ways to better myself spiritually, mentally, physically.
19. As I get older, I have noticed that I have a decreased tolerance for ignorance/stupidity.
20. I love the single ladies dance by Beyonce and pretty much got it down pat…although I can’t work it like the guys on youtube.
21. President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle are fabulous! So are Sasha and Malia!
22. I went to the inauguration and have never experienced something so cool…I made history.
23. I find it strange that some people can tell their problems to facebook but can’t tell God.
24. I love…love
25. I don’t like when men approach me the wrong way…all the extra lines are not necessary. Just saying hey is ok…gosh!
Looking over this list...there are tons of things that I could have added, but these are just randoms that were on my mind at the time. Maybe I will start to like this list thing...I have some ideas running through my head right now :-)
1. I love the Lord so much! He has been better to me than I have been to myself.
2. My mother and brother are like my babies…I love them, and take care of them.
3. I have a great job that I am thankful for.
4. Family is extremely important to me.
5. My favorite movie is The Breakfast Club and usually, no one knows what it is.
6. I hate when women want a man for all the things he can do for her (buying jewelry, putting rims on the car lol) although she is not bringing anything to the table herself. Take care of yourselves first you bums!
7. I do not believe that all men are dogs.
8. Men think that women don’t have things figured out when most times we actually do…that’s amusing to me.
9. I love google. When I don’t know something, I google it.
10. I have a small, close group of friends that I let into my life…don’t try to figure anything out about me. I will not display my life on facebook..this note is it :-)
11. I have found that I am stronger than I thought, and so is my faith.
12. I have road rage…I drive all day and get irritated when people stop me from carrying on with my life.
13. Nothing happens by chance.
14. Name it and claim it…that’s my life motto.
15. Traveling is a stress reliever for me. I do it cause I can and am able…no husband, no kids. Just me and whomever wants to go.
16. Ne-yo's song miss independent is about me lol!
17. I’m confident in who I am and appreciate those who appreciate my fabulosity :-)
18. I always look for ways to better myself spiritually, mentally, physically.
19. As I get older, I have noticed that I have a decreased tolerance for ignorance/stupidity.
20. I love the single ladies dance by Beyonce and pretty much got it down pat…although I can’t work it like the guys on youtube.
21. President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle are fabulous! So are Sasha and Malia!
22. I went to the inauguration and have never experienced something so cool…I made history.
23. I find it strange that some people can tell their problems to facebook but can’t tell God.
24. I love…love
25. I don’t like when men approach me the wrong way…all the extra lines are not necessary. Just saying hey is ok…gosh!
Looking over this list...there are tons of things that I could have added, but these are just randoms that were on my mind at the time. Maybe I will start to like this list thing...I have some ideas running through my head right now :-)
Friday, February 20, 2009
Are you talkin to me????
It amazes me how some people communicate...especially when they don't know how. Since we were kids, we have been taught the correct way to say things to people. At least most of us were. It's not really that hard. At least not for me. A big part of my job is effective communication, so I pride myself on knowing what to say, and when to say it. Why this rant on communication? Well I'll tell you.
I finished up a lunch with some clients today and there was this man in the building standing near us. I peeped him when I was talking to some other folk and I already knew what was coming because of the way he was looking at me. During my conversation, he interrupted to ask me if I had any pens to give away. I politely said no. He stood there staring and I kept on talking trying finish the point I was making. We started in on Mardi Gras festivities, and I asked them if they were going to Mardi Gras...this dude interrupted again, this time wanting to know if I was going to Mardi Gras like if I was going, then we could go together or something. I told him no, politely still. He stood there staring, still! I was watching him out of the corner of my eye because I knew that once I was on my way out to my car, he was going to try to walk with me. I didn't want that. I hate for random dudes to walk me to my car. I guess it's a city thing. One can never be too careful! Anyway, when I'm on my way out of the building he is doing the same. Of course! And this is what he says..."Hey baaaaaaaabbbbbyyyy, you got any kids??" It kinda startled me cause he was so much quieter inside. "Nope, no kids" I said while walking away. "You married baaaaaabby?" He asked. "Almost there!" I replied never looking back. He proceeded to say congrats while watching me walk away and mumbling...Hmm Hmm Hmm! Just so you know, "almost there" does not mean I'm getting married soon, or even have a prospect. Almost there could mean yeah I'm single, but I'll be getting married next lol! So in a sense it was not a lie. This man had to be about 30 years older than me! Why would I be interested?
I find it sad that men approach women in the most awful ways. No, I'm not talking about all men...just some. What would have been wrong with asking me my name? What about how are you doing? This is basic...no big words necessary. No, I'm not upset about this particular man, but in general this is how it goes. For every 2 men that approach me politely, there are about 20 men that just can't get right! Some guys will even get mad if you don't wanna give them the time of day. What makes them think that just because they are interested, we should be interested? How crazy is that? My boss used to say the definition of insanity is doing the same thing you've always done, expecting to get different results. Get a clue dudes! If you ain't getting play from females with your whack lines, try something different. Hopefully something better! Nothing is guaranteed, but at least a 'what is your name' or 'how are you' will get something other than a roll of the eyes. At least from the classy females. I can't speak for the chickenheads. LOL!
I finished up a lunch with some clients today and there was this man in the building standing near us. I peeped him when I was talking to some other folk and I already knew what was coming because of the way he was looking at me. During my conversation, he interrupted to ask me if I had any pens to give away. I politely said no. He stood there staring and I kept on talking trying finish the point I was making. We started in on Mardi Gras festivities, and I asked them if they were going to Mardi Gras...this dude interrupted again, this time wanting to know if I was going to Mardi Gras like if I was going, then we could go together or something. I told him no, politely still. He stood there staring, still! I was watching him out of the corner of my eye because I knew that once I was on my way out to my car, he was going to try to walk with me. I didn't want that. I hate for random dudes to walk me to my car. I guess it's a city thing. One can never be too careful! Anyway, when I'm on my way out of the building he is doing the same. Of course! And this is what he says..."Hey baaaaaaaabbbbbyyyy, you got any kids??" It kinda startled me cause he was so much quieter inside. "Nope, no kids" I said while walking away. "You married baaaaaabby?" He asked. "Almost there!" I replied never looking back. He proceeded to say congrats while watching me walk away and mumbling...Hmm Hmm Hmm! Just so you know, "almost there" does not mean I'm getting married soon, or even have a prospect. Almost there could mean yeah I'm single, but I'll be getting married next lol! So in a sense it was not a lie. This man had to be about 30 years older than me! Why would I be interested?
I find it sad that men approach women in the most awful ways. No, I'm not talking about all men...just some. What would have been wrong with asking me my name? What about how are you doing? This is basic...no big words necessary. No, I'm not upset about this particular man, but in general this is how it goes. For every 2 men that approach me politely, there are about 20 men that just can't get right! Some guys will even get mad if you don't wanna give them the time of day. What makes them think that just because they are interested, we should be interested? How crazy is that? My boss used to say the definition of insanity is doing the same thing you've always done, expecting to get different results. Get a clue dudes! If you ain't getting play from females with your whack lines, try something different. Hopefully something better! Nothing is guaranteed, but at least a 'what is your name' or 'how are you' will get something other than a roll of the eyes. At least from the classy females. I can't speak for the chickenheads. LOL!
Thursday, February 19, 2009
The Countdown Has Begun!!!
My bday is fastly approaching! I can't believe it's almost here. I have been so busy with work and life that I almost forgot about my birthday...how could I? It's only one of my favorite days of the year!!! I was slipping this year though, because usually there is something planned waaaaaaay in advance, but not this time. Thankfully, I have the best chics as friends! They truly are fabulous, so they helped me to plan a road trip for my bday. At first the plan was to go to NYC to do a double bday celebration with one of my girls, but that didn't happen for me because of work reasons. I was really upset about it at first, but hey what could I do? So, even though that didn't happen, another friend of mine suggested going to Atlanta. Now, we don't kick it in Atlanta alot so it's cool to get away from home sometimes. Especially when I'm with my girls. We are so freakin fabulous...and we always have a blast!! I guess I can get more excited about it since it's going down next weekend.
I swear, I have the best friends a girl could have. It's funny because we all have our own personalities, unique in many ways...yet we mesh so well together. We have learned alot from each other, and we're always there no matter what. We have made a pact to always travel somewhere for everyone's bday. We are blessed to be able to travel where we want, when we want. No husband, and no kids makes it easier for real :-) So, we are known as always being somewhere. I think you should enjoy your life while you can. That's exactly what we do...have a blast in life while still keeping it classy! There's a difference you know.
I haven't been shopping in awhile...let me take that back, I have been to the mall but just didn't see anything that I really liked, so I need to go buy me a cute dress or two to wear for my bday celebration. Gotta look fab for my day! There's so much to do in so little time it seems. I know one thing, this is going to be yet another memorable bday. Since I haven't been on my planning like I usually am, I tried to make out an itinerary for the weekend. I know, such a nerd. But really it's a must because we will get there and nobody will know what to do...so I'll just show them what I planned lol! Don't get me wrong, we all agree on things, no one is forced to do something they don't want to do...but I just lay down the foundation. Me and my other friend call ourselves the co-captains. We work well together and plan everything. It works cause things usually go smoothly...usually! :-)
My mom keeps asking me what I want for my bday. As I've gotten older, I really don't have an answer. It doesn't really matter to me what she gets me cause it's the thought that counts. Either way it's going to be something that I will appreciate. I'm not into making long lists of things I want. I buy things for myself that I want. I don't believe that people are obligated to give me gifts. Not even my current guy friend. He asked me too. Don't even know what to tell him. Some people would think I was crazy, but that's just how it is with me. But if someone wants to buy me something I appreciate that too!!! lol! I am thankful for everything I have...I never take things for granted...tangible or intangible.
I still have a week and a several days to go along with my life before the big day, and I really don't know how in the world I'm going to focus! We'll see what happens!
I swear, I have the best friends a girl could have. It's funny because we all have our own personalities, unique in many ways...yet we mesh so well together. We have learned alot from each other, and we're always there no matter what. We have made a pact to always travel somewhere for everyone's bday. We are blessed to be able to travel where we want, when we want. No husband, and no kids makes it easier for real :-) So, we are known as always being somewhere. I think you should enjoy your life while you can. That's exactly what we do...have a blast in life while still keeping it classy! There's a difference you know.
I haven't been shopping in awhile...let me take that back, I have been to the mall but just didn't see anything that I really liked, so I need to go buy me a cute dress or two to wear for my bday celebration. Gotta look fab for my day! There's so much to do in so little time it seems. I know one thing, this is going to be yet another memorable bday. Since I haven't been on my planning like I usually am, I tried to make out an itinerary for the weekend. I know, such a nerd. But really it's a must because we will get there and nobody will know what to do...so I'll just show them what I planned lol! Don't get me wrong, we all agree on things, no one is forced to do something they don't want to do...but I just lay down the foundation. Me and my other friend call ourselves the co-captains. We work well together and plan everything. It works cause things usually go smoothly...usually! :-)
My mom keeps asking me what I want for my bday. As I've gotten older, I really don't have an answer. It doesn't really matter to me what she gets me cause it's the thought that counts. Either way it's going to be something that I will appreciate. I'm not into making long lists of things I want. I buy things for myself that I want. I don't believe that people are obligated to give me gifts. Not even my current guy friend. He asked me too. Don't even know what to tell him. Some people would think I was crazy, but that's just how it is with me. But if someone wants to buy me something I appreciate that too!!! lol! I am thankful for everything I have...I never take things for granted...tangible or intangible.
I still have a week and a several days to go along with my life before the big day, and I really don't know how in the world I'm going to focus! We'll see what happens!
Monday, February 16, 2009
No wonder Americans are so obese!!
I'm off work today for the holiday (President's Day). This is cool cause it gives me time to do things I didn't get to do this weekend, like go grocery shopping. Believe me, it was much needed. My fridge was bare! I made a decision to start cooking more at home. I do cook, and I cook good, but just not enough. I looked over my finances and discovered that last month I spent $330 just on dining out. I know, that is alot! It kinda disgusted me. I don't eat fast food much, because when I do, it's like I can feel my arteries clogging! Ugh! So when I don't have food in the fridge, I just eat out at local restaurants. This is where the more healthy foods are...the grilled salmon, mixed veggies, sushi (even if it's not I still love it), grilled tilapia etc. So I would end up spending $20 or so every time I ordered take out. On top of that, when friends wanna go out for lunch/dinner I never hesitate. Shame on me...I had to make a change. I decided this last week after I was reading The Automatic Millionaire in conjunction with Suze Orman's Young, Fabulous & Broke and the books mentioned knowing exactly where your money was going. So, like I said, when I found out how much of my money was going towards dining out, I was disgusted.
I needed a change so I went grocery shopping today. I love Publix, but really they are too expensive and I didn't have any coupons. So I visited good ole' Walmart. I hate Walmart with a passion, but hey their prices are cheaper so I deal with it. Going up and down each aisle, I noticed that all the healthy foods I wanted were so much more expensive than the not-so-healthy foods with preservatives and such. For example, I only drink 100% fruit juice. The 100% orange juice was almost $3...the juice with only about 5% fruit juice was less than $1!!! That's crazy to me! Even the low calorie Pringles were almost $2 more than the regular Pringles. Oh and don't get me started on the canned veggies.
I think it's so sad that some Americans are forced to choose foods that may not be best for them, because these stores have healthier foods at a higher price! Some people don't even stand a chance!!!! And stats show that the greatest number of obese Americans are where? You guessed it...the SOUTH! Gosh! Think about the children growing up that are missing out on essential fruits and veggies because parents can't afford to buy healthy...they buy cheap. Thus the cycle continues. I need to find out if there is someone I can write to about this nonsense. I mean come on, why must we keep contributing to the fatness of our society. I saw 2 kids in Starbucks the other day with enormous ice cream cones...now, ice cream is cool sometimes, but the kids were already obese! And get this, the mom was as thin as a toothpick!
I understand that there are some things that will never change, so I'll just keep on buying my healthy foods and try to keep myself out of the obese range (really working on that LOL!)...If I don't do it who will?
I needed a change so I went grocery shopping today. I love Publix, but really they are too expensive and I didn't have any coupons. So I visited good ole' Walmart. I hate Walmart with a passion, but hey their prices are cheaper so I deal with it. Going up and down each aisle, I noticed that all the healthy foods I wanted were so much more expensive than the not-so-healthy foods with preservatives and such. For example, I only drink 100% fruit juice. The 100% orange juice was almost $3...the juice with only about 5% fruit juice was less than $1!!! That's crazy to me! Even the low calorie Pringles were almost $2 more than the regular Pringles. Oh and don't get me started on the canned veggies.
I think it's so sad that some Americans are forced to choose foods that may not be best for them, because these stores have healthier foods at a higher price! Some people don't even stand a chance!!!! And stats show that the greatest number of obese Americans are where? You guessed it...the SOUTH! Gosh! Think about the children growing up that are missing out on essential fruits and veggies because parents can't afford to buy healthy...they buy cheap. Thus the cycle continues. I need to find out if there is someone I can write to about this nonsense. I mean come on, why must we keep contributing to the fatness of our society. I saw 2 kids in Starbucks the other day with enormous ice cream cones...now, ice cream is cool sometimes, but the kids were already obese! And get this, the mom was as thin as a toothpick!
I understand that there are some things that will never change, so I'll just keep on buying my healthy foods and try to keep myself out of the obese range (really working on that LOL!)...If I don't do it who will?
Sunday, February 15, 2009
Who are they going to choose next? Gosh!
Reality shows are extremely popular these days...I haven't really figured out why yet. Maybe because I haven't tried, but really, things are getting out of control now! Specifically, I am talking about these shows were people are trying to find love. It all started with Flava Flav (that strange looking man) wanting to find love. And boy did he have a task ahead of him! Some, no most of those women needed a lesson in class! Then came along I Love New York, and she is something else! After New York, Real and Chance from her previous shows tried to take on the task of finding love. I'm pretty sure it will be a season two soon. I know because I watched it...LOL! Hey, it pulls me in whether I like it or not. One show that I refuse to watch is For the Love of Ray J!! Are you kidding me? Ray J? The no-singing brother of Brandy? He has his own reality show now...I'm shaking my head because I still can't believe it! I haven't watched his show and will not because VH1 needs to learn that we only want to know about the lives of those who matter... :-) I know, I know...it must sound like I hate Ray J, but really I don't care about Ray J! That's why I won't watch it! If I had my pick though, I would love for someone like Oprah to have her own reality show, she should find love lol!...maybe even some other celebrity. It's fun to see what goes on in their lives. At least it is to me. I wonder who they will get next...think about it. The list could be sillier than you think. I should start posting randoms from my life on youtube and then maybe I could be the next reality star. It seems to work for everybody else...just a thought ;-)
Following My Passion
I finally did it! I've always wanted to start my own business, but never went through with it. Now, I can say that I am an entrepreneur! I launched SimplySavvy Resumes last month and the rest is history!
I created the website on my own and am extremely proud of it. I never would have imagined that I would start the business, but here I am!
I have a passion for helping others better their career lives. I'm the type who wants the best for everybody. I want everyone to succeed. SimplySavvy Resumes gives me the chance to do so. I write and revise resumes and other business documents. God has truly blessed me in this venture. I have received tons of support from family, friends, and even people that I don't know. How cool is that? :-) Anyway, I am so confident that things will continue to go well with SimplySavvy!
There are so many people out there who have resumes that do not market their skills effectively. This can be detrimental to a job search whether they know it or not. The thing about it is, it does not have to be. I want to change all that. SimplySavvy Resumes will change all that!
http://www.embracesavvy.webs.com
I created the website on my own and am extremely proud of it. I never would have imagined that I would start the business, but here I am!
I have a passion for helping others better their career lives. I'm the type who wants the best for everybody. I want everyone to succeed. SimplySavvy Resumes gives me the chance to do so. I write and revise resumes and other business documents. God has truly blessed me in this venture. I have received tons of support from family, friends, and even people that I don't know. How cool is that? :-) Anyway, I am so confident that things will continue to go well with SimplySavvy!
There are so many people out there who have resumes that do not market their skills effectively. This can be detrimental to a job search whether they know it or not. The thing about it is, it does not have to be. I want to change all that. SimplySavvy Resumes will change all that!
http://www.embracesavvy.webs.com
Keeping my job...
So my company, along with tons of others this year announced layoffs. It just seems that one company decides to hack its employees and the other ones say, "Hey! That's a great idea! Let's do it now while everyone is doing it!!"
Thankfully, I still have my job. I must say though, it was stressful for me. It's not easy to move on when your employer tells you they are letting you go and there's nothing you did wrong. If companies only laid off employees that were rotten and didn't care about their job then that would be one thing, but to lay off people who are great employees with great potential is a bit unnerving. I know because I have been there and done that.
What's sad is that I know plenty of people all over the US who don't have a job now. That really sucks! And in reality, now is not the time to be looking for a job. My mom always says that it's easier to look for a job when you have one. When you are laid off and job hunting, sometimes you have to settle for whatever comes your way. This is how I see it.
On the other hand, I frequent Monster and Careerbuilder sites and they have tons of jobs posted. I guess it really just depends on the candidate and their skills and qualifications. I am hopeful that the job outlook will get better sooner rather than later. This is definitely me being the optimistic person that I am. It will all work out for the greater good...
Thankfully, I still have my job. I must say though, it was stressful for me. It's not easy to move on when your employer tells you they are letting you go and there's nothing you did wrong. If companies only laid off employees that were rotten and didn't care about their job then that would be one thing, but to lay off people who are great employees with great potential is a bit unnerving. I know because I have been there and done that.
What's sad is that I know plenty of people all over the US who don't have a job now. That really sucks! And in reality, now is not the time to be looking for a job. My mom always says that it's easier to look for a job when you have one. When you are laid off and job hunting, sometimes you have to settle for whatever comes your way. This is how I see it.
On the other hand, I frequent Monster and Careerbuilder sites and they have tons of jobs posted. I guess it really just depends on the candidate and their skills and qualifications. I am hopeful that the job outlook will get better sooner rather than later. This is definitely me being the optimistic person that I am. It will all work out for the greater good...
Act One: The Start of Expression
Today is my day of relaxation...Sunday. Usually I am getting prepared for another work week. Fortunately, I have one more day to prepare myself since we are off for President's Day. That is just fabulous. Being off on a weekday is so refreshing, as long as it's not a sick day :-(
Anywhoo, life is good. I have my health, family, friends, a job that I love and most importantly...this new blog where I can express my deepest emotions. I want this blog to speak for me. I want these Random Acts of Life to tell who I am, where I am, and where I wanna be. I'm a big believer in letting it all out. It is a therapy. Writing is my therapy.
I am very opinionated. I have views on everything. These opinions can come from my life experiences, morals/values, things I have read, people I have talked to etc. I know that I don't know everything, but I take pride in knowing a lot and learning things that I don't know. I feel that something I say, even if it is of little importance, may have an impact on someone else's life. If I can do that, then I'm good :-)
Anywhoo, life is good. I have my health, family, friends, a job that I love and most importantly...this new blog where I can express my deepest emotions. I want this blog to speak for me. I want these Random Acts of Life to tell who I am, where I am, and where I wanna be. I'm a big believer in letting it all out. It is a therapy. Writing is my therapy.
I am very opinionated. I have views on everything. These opinions can come from my life experiences, morals/values, things I have read, people I have talked to etc. I know that I don't know everything, but I take pride in knowing a lot and learning things that I don't know. I feel that something I say, even if it is of little importance, may have an impact on someone else's life. If I can do that, then I'm good :-)
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